Many of us are familiar with newspaper classified or Craigslist "missed connections" - the two people who caught each others' eyes on a subway but never met or made small talk in an elevator but didn't have the courage to ask for each other's phone number (or even a first name). But those aren't the only missed connections - most of us have had the experience of having a moment in which love, sex or a relationship might have gone another way if only you or he or she had done or said X, Y or Z. Of course, the path not taken can never be known - but, nevertheless, sometimes it makes us wonder. What might have happened if only...? Read More

If you want to change your sex life for the better, learn how saying no can lead to more pleasurable sex and a libido boost. 

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Too often in love and in sex, we go with the flow. We think things are going well enough or there's no apparent conflict (and many of us are scared of conflict) so as long as there are no rough waters, we think everything must be fine. We're safe, comfortable, maybe we even think at times that safe and comfortable add up to happy. And then one day someone asks us what we want. Read More

Recent research about sex and love has found that touching and cuddling, though important to both women and men, may be particularly important for men's sexual satisfaction, relationship happiness and marital commitment. Read More