The Perfect Score Project

One mom's quest to ace the SAT.

Walking A Mile In Someone Else’s Shoes

Learning is the easy, it's the remembering part that's hard.

llustrations by Jennifer Orkin Lewis

The deeper I get into this SAT project, the more I realize that most of the information I learn is ephemeral.  One day, complete understanding of some concept;  two weeks later, a hazy memory.

Here's what happens: I'll spend a week studying some concept -- say functions -- and then I'll turn my attention to some other element that needs tending to -- say dangling modifiers -- and by the time I see a function problem on a test, my understanding is fuzzy (at best).

I keep thinking about my daughter, who tells me every time a reportcard comes out,  "it's really hard to get good grades in every subject at the same time."

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She's right!  

As I try to learn (and more importantly retain), the necessary information for the SAT, I'm honestly surprised by how much harder this is than I'd ever imagined.  Eight months ago, I optimistically thought a little elbow grease, and I'd be there in no time.

Now, as I score barely higher than I did eight months ago, after countless hours of practice, my daughter's words have taken on a visceral meaning for me.

Turns out there's science to verify this frustrating phenomenon and a new study by researchers at Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center (BIDMC) about the brain orchestrating competition between memories:

For the last 100 years, it has been appreciated that trying to learn facts and skills in quick succession can be a frustrating exercise,” explains Edwin Robertson, MD, DPhil, an Associate Professor of Neurology at Harvard Medical School and BIDMC. “Because no sooner has a new memory been acquired than its retention is jeopardized by learning another fact or skill.

 

All I can say is, this is not easy!

If you think I exaggerate -- try this free SAT from the College Board. And if you have a kid in high school

 

 

llustrations by Jennifer Orkin Lewis



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Debbie Stier is the founder of The Perfect Score Project, and is writing a book about her experience of trying to get a perfect SAT score.

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