As a cancer patient, when I had been given my last chemotherapy treatment, my oncologist told me, "Now get on with your life."-- Kathleen
Kathleen states that when she received the above advice it was simultaneously heartening and disheartening. It was heartening because the doctor was telling Kathleen that she was cancer-free and could move forward. It was disheartening, however, because Kathleen's story didn't really end there. After extensive treatment for breast cancer she was both emotionally and physically depleted. She may have been cancer-free, but she was by no means "healed."
In her book, You Can Heal Yourself, Julie Silver, M.D. addresses this often overlooked but vital issue: how we can truly heal ourselves following a lengthy stay in "the sick zone" of severe illness. And by the way — Kathleen is Dr. Silver's middle name.
From "Treatment" to "Healing"
As any patient (and their loved ones as well) knows only too well, treatment for cancer is a long and winding road. It is also an emotional roller coaster. From the moment of initial diagnosis it injects a strong element of anxiety into patient and family alike. To say that it is taxing on the body and the spirit is a gross understatement. Cancer treatment is often a frightening, confusing journey that is fraught with difficult decisions. Many bad things can happen along the way. And if it does lead to a "cure," that process typically includes pernicious and long-lasting side effects.
The great majority of patients are like Kathleen: faced with a "new normal" that may include chronic fatigue, pain, weakness and depression. But the point of Dr. Silver's book is that one does not have to accept this "new normal." Rather, it is possible to heal, to heal on many levels, and to recapture the vitality that many patients enjoyed before they ever became ill.
You Can Heal Yourself (St. Martin's Griffin) focuses on teaching cancer patients (and those who suffer from similarly serious illnesses) how to go about healing themselves in two ways: from the inside out, and from the outside in. Here are a couple of examples of the many practical solutions she offers:
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