The holiday season is typically a time of great stress for many people. You know what I mean - the whirlwind of shopping, gift-giving, holiday parties, cooking, and family gatherings. But what about romance and time alone with your partner? Is it even possible over the holidays?

Before you get back to your gift wrapping responsibilities, don't forget that it is possible and necessary! Time alone - just the two of you - is still important during this season. It doesn't have to be for a long period of time - even a few hours - just enough to reconnect and make sure each of you knows how much you appreciate one another. Here are 3 simple romantic things to do with your sweetheart over the holidays:

1. My date, your date. Reciprocity is a great way to strengthen your emotional connection. Each partner writes down a date idea, and you exchange notes. She wants to go on a hike (even though he's a couch potato). He wants to visit the football hall of fame (even though the last player she could name was Joe Namath). Take time for your date or make plans to fulfill your honey's wish in 2011. Schedule it on the calendar. You'll learn something wonderful about your mate, and you'll feel closer.