There's a guy I kind of like and there are some signs he likes me, too. But when I ask him questions by email, or ask if he's available to go out he says he's busy or doesn't respond.
We see each other weekly and are also Facebook friends, but he seems kind of aloof at times and I was wondering whether he is being a good friend despite the “no response” and if he is at all interested in taking the friendship to a higher level (i.e. romantic).
And yes, I'm willing to hear whether I'm just engaging in wishful thinking. I need to hear it straight up!
I’m not sure what the “signs” of him liking you are. Unless they are strong signs, when someone doesn’t respond to invitations at all, not even saying he is too busy, it’s likely that he’s less interested in you than you are in him.