I need your help. My new husband of two years was involved with a woman before me for five years. Even though he told her to stay away from his sister and told his sister to stay away from her, they persisted in their relationship. His sister insists she is not in contact with the ex-girlfriend anymore but that isn't true and it is hurting my marriage.
Since the beginning, my sister-in-law tried to break up my relationship with my husband with all kinds of stories from this woman. It felt tantamount to being stalked. She tells stories that make my husband look like a criminal that are all untrue. To make matters worse, the ex-girlfriend is a psychologist/lawyer and was privy to many goings, which she has altered. My new sister-in-law has made me feel uncomfortable with personal attacks that are deftly done. I am a former model with an Executive MBA from Wharton/Columbia, undergraduate and graduate.
I want to stop seeing my sister-in-law but is this right? My husband and I are sick over it and don't know why this relationship with his ex is so important to her. Any ideas? I made his sister my maid-of-honor and her husband was the best man who also walked me down the aisle. It is so sad to have it end this way and we are sick over it.