The Dance of Connection

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Don't Think Pink

Breast Cancer: Let's question the annual onslaught of pink.


It's October, breast cancer awareness month. I'd like to take the opportunity to invite women to question the annual onslaught of pink, which (although it's nobody's bad intentions) urges consumerism of pink-themed products, while trivializing the epidemic of breast cancer, it's environmental causes, and the suffering of its victims.

Raising awareness about breast cancer is undoubtedly a good idea. But here women would do well to follow the lead of AIDS activists who fought valiantly for funding, and gave us the AIDS quilt and Angels in America--not teddy bears, pink ribbons, and, in my home town of Lawrence Kansas, bras tied together and strung across the Kansas River bridge.

As a friend pondered, "What would be strung across the bridge to raise awareness of prostate cancer in men?".

 

 



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Harriet Lerner, Ph.D. is best known for her work on marriage and family relationships and the psychology of women. Her latest book is Marriage Rules: A Manual for the Married and the Coupled Up.

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