The Dance of Connection

Rescuing women and men from the quicksand of difficult relationships.
by Harriet Lerner, Ph.D.

You're Still an Anxious Mess?

By Harriet Lerner, Ph.D. on August 30, 2009 in The Dance of Connection

Some years back I went to a two-week spiritual retreat in Arizona, which included two days of fasting and practicing total silence alone in the desert. Afterwards, we sat in a circle and each person told a story from his or her experience.

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Harriet Lerner, Ph.D.

Harriet Lerner, Ph.D. is best known for her work on marriage and family relationships and the psychology of women. Her latest book is Marriage Rules: A Manual for the Married and the Coupled Up.

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