Relationships

The Attractionologists

Eli Finkel and Paul Eastwick
Investigating the Science of Attraction and Relationships
By Eli Finkel and Paul Eastwick

Separation Distress Among Romantic Partners and its Lessons for Human Mating

By Paul Eastwick on August 4, 2008 - 8:47am in The Attractionologists

When I was 11, my stepmother described how she broke down while traveling in China. She was away from my father for 5 weeks, and at the time of one of their scheduled phone calls, she couldn't find a way to connect. Read More

It’s Your Wedding Day … Should You Vow You’ll Love Your New Spouse Forever?

By Eli J. Finkel on July 24, 2008 - 2:08am in The Attractionologists

As your friends and family look on, you look into your new spouse's eyes and see your loving gaze returned. The sun shines, the smiles radiate, and your heart wells up with joy. How wonderful to have found your life mate! You're certain you will love this person forever. Should you solemnly vow that you will do so? Read More

Should You Play Hard to Get?

By Eli J. Finkel on July 5, 2008 - 11:55pm in The Attractionologists

Your heart goes out to Jessica Simpson. Not only is her relationship struggling, she is also forced to endure the inevitable barrage of magazine articles scolding her for her missteps: If only you didn’t screw up, Jessica, your man wouldn’t be thinking of leaving you. Read More

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