The Art of Non-Conformity

Thinking differently, questioning assumptions, and living a life of grateful adventure

Do You Ever Get Lonely When You Travel?

Yes, and that's sometimes the best part.

Of course, and sometimes that’s the best part.

Last month in Hong Kong, I went to the New Territories, a part of the city I’d never visited before. It was only half an hour from bustling Kowloon, but it felt like a totally different region.

On the eve of my departure, before I’d fly to Tokyo and then to Los Angeles, I was feeling anxious.

I went for an hour-long run, my longest in a while. I set out just as the sun was setting and ran along the water, looking at the Kowloon skyline across the narrow harbor.

I felt as if I were completely alone in the world, a pilgrim on a journey of discovery that would lead me back to my hotel. I wasn’t alone, of course—all around me were island residents walking dogs and pushing strollers. But I didn’t know them, and even though I came to Hong Kong often, it wasn’t my home.

I was just another traveler, out in the South China Sea, dreaming of my projects and soaking in the mix of disorientation and nostalgia that came from being in Asia again.

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It’s a nice feeling to be alone in the world, yet still have the ability to order a nice pizza margherita back at headquarters.

As I ran I told myself: everything is going to be okay.

Chris Guillebeau travels the world and writes for a small army of remarkable people at chrisguillebeau.com.

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