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A self-help book editor uses what she learns at work and in life to help herself.

Does Self-Help help the Self?

What is it I'm looking for when I crack open a self-help book?

Hello! This is my first blog post for Psychology Today. I feel so honored to be included among such esteemed clinicians, researchers, writers and thinkers, particularly since I have no heavy-duty credentials to bring to bear on this task, nor any clinical or research experience under my belt. Then why am I writing here? Two reasons: I acquire psychology self-help books for a living and work with the authors to develop them, and I am the self-help audience: a professional, educated, intelligent adult woman with disposable income. I bought my first self-help book when I was 10,  a slim book called How to Be Popular. So not only do I have a insider's knowledge of the self-help industry, I also know what works in self-help and what doesn't - or at least what works and what doesn't for me.

I decided to write this blog because I wanted to explore how the self-help work that I do affects my own mental health issues - particularly a tendency towards depression and anxiety, especially social anxiety - and my own path of self-awareness around these issues. Does self-help really work? For that matter, does therapy really work? I've had therapists on and off since I was a child. What worked and what didn't? What do I get out of my sessions? What sticks with me out of all the self-help books, blogs, and magazine and newspaper articles I read? What is it I'm looking for when I crack open a self-help book, click on the link to a psychology blog post, check out the ads for hypnotherapists in my local weekly, or stop to read a magazine article on how to be happier?

I certainly don't claim to be any sort of expert on psychology, self-help, therapy, happiness, or well-being. I'm just a human being fumbling and struggling along like the rest of us. I just happen to be tapped into a rich vein of psychological knowledge that most non-psychology people aren't exposed to. Some of what I experience in my life is pretty great; other things are pretty messy and painful. And while I, like everyone,  want to be happier and more content in general, I find that goal elusive, and fleeting at best, even with the best of self-help and psychology literally at my fingertips. So in this blog, I'll explore all of this and more, and hopefully will be able to provide some insight into the myriad ways that we try to gain happiness and peace. Thanks for joining me on this journey!



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Melissa Kirk is a writer and editor who works as an acquisitions and developmental editor at New Harbinger Publications, a self-help psychology publisher in Oakland, CA. She writes a personal blog at honeybtemple2.blogspot.com

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