A Swim in Denial

What we can't think about and how it shapes us.

Shooting into the Dark

Rampage violence is often an emergency effort to save the self and the world from psychic death. Denial keeps us from recognizing how familiar and dangerous its deep dynamics can be. Read More

Guns are not the problem.

Guns are not the problem. They need to be guided by a person to do damage.

Neglectful parents who (to their benefit) didn't learn how to model constructive and pro-social behavior for their children are a dangerous, growing phenomenon in our society.

Who's regulating/monitoring parenting skills? Because we become parents doesn't give us a "free ticket" from having mental health and interpersonal communication issues which need attention.

Metaphoric to a person who seeks to acquire a gun - a parent who is not "qualified" (has no "background check" or monitoring done for parenting/communication skills) is potentially very dangerous. Further, parents "wrap their hands around" a child, guide/"aim" their direction, and, ultimately, pull the trigger.

What we really need to give our attention to is not the gun, but who's behind the trigger.

Related: http://beyondthefaceoffacebook.wordpress.com/2012/01/08/voices-carry/

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Kirby Farrell, Ph.D.'s most recent book is Berserk Style in American Culture.

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