Surprised by Love

Design an extraordinary relationship... if not now, when?

by Jay Kent-Ferraro, Ph.D., MBA

"Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater... Maybe Not"

How can I ever trust them again? If they cheated once won't they do it again? The "once a cheater, always a cheater" argument is a flagrant myth designed to protect but most definitely not enlighten. Discovery "why" people have affairs is the real key! Read More

Betrayal: What's Wrong With Men?

Are all men who betray narcissistic sociopaths or is there more going on in the dance of intimacy that can explain, not excuse the fact that 60% of all men are unfaithful? There is more to the story and the health of all relationships rests upon men "man-ing up" to the requirements of what it means to really love. Read More

Is It Really Possible to Save a Marriage After an Affair?

Is a marriage destined for a divorce following an affair? We believe it's not only possible to save a marriage but thrive following infidelity. Here's why... Read More

True Confessions of an Adulterer... Who Happens to Be a Shrink!

I am an adulterer who happens to be a licensed clinician and is willing to tell the truth about why I did. I chose to have an affair that ended in a devastating divorce, left my wife and children, landed me in a jail cell, damaged my business and many important relationships and almost cost me my life. Welcome to my story... Read More

Jay Kent-Ferraro, Ph.D., is an optimal performance coach and expert in human development. He has a doctorate in clinical and counseling psychology.

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About Surprised by Love

Is it possible to heal from an affair? Is divorce the only option to rectify betrayal? How does infidelity happen and what can be done to prevent it? Is there such a thing as "true love"? Surprised by Love is a tragic and disturbing story with a miraculous ending chronicling the true story of a couple who survived an affair, a subsequent divorce, and then quite by surprise, a magical reconciliation to a new marriage with each other.