Stuck

Why we can't (or won't) move on from bad jobs, bad relationships, and bad habits, and how we can all move ahead.
Anneli Rufus is the author of many books, including Party of One: The Loners' Manifesto and Stuck: Why We Can't (or Won't) Move On. See full bio

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Pelvic Thrusts in Public

The ongoing movement to glorify the slut has lately taken a stiletto-heeled, sauntering step farther. For a large sector of the American population -- spanning race, class, and gender lines -- the prevailing aesthetic is Modern Prostitute. The slut thing was different. Promiscuous people, one could argue, simply like lots of sex. Their passion doesn't merit prejudice. So you could say that the de-stigmatization of sluts was progressive. But prostitutes and others who sell sex: Most of them do not want to. Most do it only under duress, as a last resort. Sex-positive? I don't think so. Yet now it's super cool, especially among the middle-class young, to dress like those who sell sex. Top performers dress and act, at least onstage, like those who sell sex. What does this say about us? Read More

Somehow I don't think the

Somehow I don't think the slut look was exactly what Gloria Steinem and the other feminists had in mind when they were fighting for women's rights.

Observant article; of clothing

Depressives are highly sexual early in life and and as the prefrontal cortex loses cells and the Amygdala and hippocampus shrink the sexual drive is decimated. Depressives also enter highly altered states called episodes and psychosis. The woman in jail for killing her daughter is considered a psychotic. Sincerely,David

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