Snow White Doesn't Live Here Anymore

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If You Have a Choice, Choose Happy: Look Ahead With Hope

Our sense of well-being works on commission; our best times rarely come unbidden. We need to make them feel welcome. We need to hold the door open and make sure they know we are ready for them, glad to see them, and hope to see them again. This isn't foolish; hope isn't foolish; hope is the very stuff of life's best days. Read More

Choose Happy

Allow me to provide the first "Amen!"

I don't know why, but I've been the happy fool most of my life. It's not about whether the glass is half full or half empty...It's about being grateful to HAVE a glass. Having the glass means there is HOPE that you can put something in it.
I love my glass. It, and I have survived a lot...and we're not done filling up yet.
Love to you Gina, will you be my big sister? I'm loving you that much.


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Gina Barreca, Ph.D., is Professor of English at UConn, and author of It's Not That I'm Bitter: How I Learned to Stop Worrying About Visible Panty Lines and Conquered the World.


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