This is *not* a pediatric posting.
A few years ago I spent some time in an adult sleep medicine clinic, getting training in sleep medicine. Many of the patients presenting with obstructive sleep apnea (a condition where the throat collapses during sleep, causing the patient to choke and startle) had probably had it for years, but stubbornly resisted seeing a physician to get evaluated and treated for it. Some had been banished from their bedroom because their snoring was so loud. Others found themselves falling asleep in traffic while stopped for a few moments at a red light. Many suffered from high blood pressure, heart disease, and poor sugar control. Their health, marriages, and overall quality of life were being severely impacted by the disorder, yet they had to be dragged into clinic by their wives to get help for it.
Much has been written of the fact that women are more comfortable going to see their doctor than men. Women have many interactions with doctors over the years during their pregnancies, and then afterwards while accompanying their children to their doctors' visits (in my practice, at least, women accompanying their children to a doctor's appointment outnumber men by about 5 to 2). Most men, on the other hand, don't typically see the doctor until after their first heart attack. Still, one would think that when burdened with such a debilitating condition that so negatively affects their health and interpersonal relationships, they would seek help sooner.


















