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The world of only children

Susan Newman is a social psychologist and author. Her books include Parenting an Only Child and The Book of NO. See full bio

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December 20, 2009

Everybody Wins When Children Play Less

Parents secretly wanted their kids' teams to lose so they can go home early. It's called "the hidden secret of youth sports." Read More

December 13, 2009

When Will the Duggars Stop?

"What's the last thing people want in a recession? More kids, apparently." Of course, this doesn't apply to the Duggars. Read More

November 15, 2009

Who is the Most Violent Person in Your Family?

You may be surprised.
Last week twenty-year-old Jim told his mother that he has always been leery of his younger, but larger brother, Andrew. Jim's cautiousness around Andrew dates back to the time Andrew shoved him off a dump truck breaking both of Jim's wrists. Read More

October 28, 2009

The Dark Side of Siblings

The Other Dirty Family Secret...Most parents who introduce their first born to a new brother or sister are well aware of, if not totally versed in, the difficulties that may arise. Parents read one or more of the books categorized as "how to introduce your child to a new sibling." Apparently much of this good intention and preparation goes unheeded. Read More

May 18, 2009

When Does Mothering Become Smothering? Part 2

Is invasive parenting here to stay? Read More

April 23, 2009

When Does Mothering Become Smothering? Part 1

When does responsible and appropriate parental involvement cross the line and become hovering and overprotective? Read More

April 13, 2009

Is There a Vasectomy (or Tubal Ligation) in Your Future?

Is There a Vasectomy (or Tubal Ligation) in Your Future? More likely than it was a year ago. Drastic as sterilization sounds to most of us, more and more people are giving it serious consideration these days. Here's why... Read More

March 21, 2009

Uproar Over Octomom Has an Upside

It would good if the furor over the Octomom put adoption in a positive light and made it a first choice for many parents. The uproar brings up another potential benefit. Read More

March 17, 2009

Stopping the People-Pleasing Habit

For some people, saying yes, giving in to what is asked or wanted is a habit, even an addiction. The people-pleasing habit can be cured. Read More

March 16, 2009

Striking a Balance Between Ivy League or Bust

From babyhood to teen years many Chinese parents use “unconventional techniques to turn out an Ivy-caliber child”—from excessive jump rope training to holding ice cubes in small bare hands. How far should parents go to prepare their child for an Ivy League education? Read More

Books by Susan Newman, Ph.D.

Parenting an Only Child: The Joys and Challenges of Raising Your One and Only

The Book of No: 250 Ways to Say It -- And Mean It and Stop People-pleasing Forever

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