She Bets Her Life

A writer and former compulsive gambler reflects on women and addiction.

Three Sacred Questions for your new year

Medicine for body, mind and whatever else you believe in.

If midnight tonight is the beginning of your new year*, you may want to ask yourself three questions in relation to last year.  They are the questions that healers of a Central Oregon Native American tribe ask their patients before beginning medicine work.  The healers believe that the answers a new patient give to the questions tell them how deep the illness, injury or damage lies.

1.  When was the last time you danced?

2.  When was the last time you sang?

3.  When was the last time you told your story?

*Those of us who celebrate the beginning of a new year at a different time will also find these questions illuminating.  (Thanks to JK for the information.)

Here, from Tom Waits, is a little Basement Medicine for all our new years:

Got to get behind the Mule In the morning and plow

Got to get behind the Mule

In the morning and plow

Got to get behind the Mule

In the morning and plow

Got to get behind the Mule

In the morning and plow


Pin your ear to the wisdom post

Pin your eye to the line

Never let the weeds get higher

Than the garden

Always keep a sapphire in your mind

Always keep a diamond in your mind  

---Get Behind the Mule, on the album, Mule Variations

 

and from that cranky old healer, Van Morrison

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FH-fPvur0Sk&feature=relatedhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sNunJ-bKPvY&NR=1photo of knapped point by:  http://www.stonebreaker-fsc.net/Points_for_sale_2.html

 

 



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Mary Sojourner, M.A., is the author of She Bets Her Life: A True Story of Gambling Addiction (Seal Press/ April 2010) and Going Through Ghosts (U.Nevada Press, 2010).

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