Did you really click on this post?  Do I really have to answer this question?  Are you as bored as I am with the conversations about boobs and adultery and porn?  What is left to say?

Give yourself a break.  Check out Wilson Picket performing Land of a Thousand Dances in 1967.  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kk4Uwge4DzQ  Get down (as we used to say) into your own body. Shake your thing.  Experience yourself from the inside out.  Then tell us whether you really give a good cahoots about intellectualizing about boobs and adultery and porn.  

Your own deep sensuality is the antidote for tedious speculation.  Your pleasure is Basement Medicine supreme.