Shameless Woman

Sexual numbness is reversible and it begins with reawakening our ability to feel arousal. This is possible when we can learn to quiet our minds.

If a woman can't feel your desire, she will probably not be inspired to have sex with you. Women want you to really want them. How can you show her that you desire her?

Positive sexual activity creates a loop of blood flow in your body to not only increase your sexual pleasure but to support your baby making efforts!

The new "female Viagra" is supposed to rekindle a woman's fire to prevent the extinction of the marriage bond and fidelity. Now, mind you, women—even those who have become quite creative at dodging the sex bullet at home—are perfectly capable of feeling desire when there’s someone sexy walking by.

We can all have passionate, sexy long term marriages and relationships. But first we have to unlock ourselves. Make room for our own self discovery, and then make room for our partners. We need to learn how to give our relationships air.

Create space while knowing that there is some security.. It is the secret surprise to passion.

One person might call their relationship "monogamous" because they always sleep at home, but otherwise, they feel free to go out and play sexually outside their relationship. Their partner may feel that what is happening is an "open marriage" and may not agree to that. It's important to ask your partner when it comes sex, "What does this mean to you?"

Did you know that women's sexual desire is considered by many sexologists as "responsive desire," while male sexual response is usually characterized by "spontaneous desire"?

Many of us just want to be seen as hot and sexy.

"Do you believe that lost desire can be reclaimed? Specifically, in a long, happy enough marriage, where sexual desire and satisfaction used to exist, can we find a new way to pleasure when it's been gone for a while?"

Relationships

Embracing the Role of Aunt For the Holidays

Pamela Madsen on December 24, 2012

Have you ever considered the importance of your presence in the life of a child without actually being that’s child’s mother? What if we didn’t run from the role Aunt (whether it is a biological connection or the child of a best friend), while we are trying to conceive and instead embraced it? Is that possible?

Have you ever considered the importance of your presence in the life of a child without actually being that’s child’s mother? What if we didn’t run from the role Aunt (whether it is a biological connection or the child of a best friend), while we are trying to conceive and instead embraced it? Is that possible?

Let’s say that the calendar doesn’t stop after December 23, 2012. You are still right here, and really want a baby! What then? What’s your action plan? And perhaps the bigger question is what do you know about your fertility?

Sexual arousal is not a limited experience, it is a full life experience.

Retreats are about going deeper, and creates an opportunity for us to explore new ways of being and to consider changes we might want to bring into our lives. When women go on retreat they are often seeking a new perspective and investing in their own lives.

Many people are tied to old belief systems about their self image. A woman who is worried about her appearance can't relax enough to let her true sensuality rise up and be playful.

Learning how to be comfortable while being uncomfortable, is something that most of us have to learn how to do. So many of us can't tolerate being uncomfortable for even short amounts of time. We fill up our discomfort with all kinds of distractions such as emotional high drama, eating, drinking, drugs and various forms of addiction, or abusive behavior.

Once again, scientists, feminists, and anyone with a microphone has projected their fears and anxieties about women onto our vaginas.

What is it about female bodies that are so powerful and amazing that we keep trying to bury it, only to have it emerge as another great big new discovery—until it scares us again into another wave of female genital amnesia?

Sex

Many Shades of Grey: Reclaiming ‘Humanistic’ Sex Therapy

Pamela Madsen on September 10, 2012

After scanning the literature on the human relationship with sex, I have come up with this very deep and profound conclusion: “Sex is hard”. And it may very well be the gateway for us humans to being whole.

After scanning the literature on the human relationship with sex, I have come up with this very deep and profound conclusion: “Sex is hard”. And it may very well be the gateway for us humans to being whole.

"Keep it simple and keep it hot" is the best kind of relationship tip list. These are the tips that keep my own attention and happy meter going in relationship. Maybe it will spark some ideas for you or remind you that it might be time to practice a little relationship love.

We don't hear about “Core Erotic Wounds”; the part of our sexual nature that is often damaged in childhood. Uncovering and understanding this often unintentionally caused wound can help us change our relationship with our bodies and our sexuality.