When was the last time you played with a sex toy? Sex toys come in all kinds of flavors - there is something for everybody. Sex toys are about fun, pleasure and can be a great tool for reminding us that sexuality can be playful! And yes - just so you know - you can have Organic Orgasms - even with the use of electricity and batteries! It's all about savoring the journey - and sometimes the journey is full of games, intensity, and wild rides!
Some of my favorite sex toys are really simple - I love the "Dirty Dice" for instance! As a woman who is in a 29 year old marriage - sometimes it is hard to just get things started in a passionate and fun way. Bringing out the dice is a playful way for me to break the ice - and get my husband and I to giggle a little - remember to be playful - and get turned on!
I also love the Remote Vibe Panty for the same reason! It's all about sexual play and anticipation - being all naughty with each other - and giving my partner a little power. You can put these babies on - go out to dinner - and your partner is in charge of sending a little "current" your way in unexpected movements! At the movies....visiting friends.....or simply taking a walk! I have spilled more wine with these babies on - and I never get used to the sensation! I am always surprised - and my husband and I have this wonderful little secret that we are sharing!
Vibrators can be instruments of pleasure that can be all about "Getting Off" in a quick and wild way - or they can be used to slowly tantalize. Try to use them in non-obvious way - and see what happens! So what is "Non-Obvious" vibrator play - you may ask? And you are asking - right?
What about letting it hum behind a knee or on the sole of a foot? Running it along each and every curve of your lover's body? Want to kick it up a notch? Throw in restraints and a blind fold and see what happens!! But remember folks - "Safe, Sane and Consensual" ...
And here is my true confession..sometimes I just like to be alone with my own body and my own sexual pleasure. I have had several personal vibrators in my life - yet I always seem to come back to basics. It is like knowing that there is a fabulous five star tasting menu out there in the land of sex toys - but just wanting Mac and Cheese! And for me - that basic, reliable toy is The Hitachi Magic Wand! You know - it doesn't look that sexy - and it only has two speeds! It doesn't fit in my handbag, and I have to plug it in. It is kind of like me - a little old fashioned - but bold, fun and reliable! My Hitachi Magic Wand has staying power and can keep up with me!
So...when was the last time you "played"? Bought yourself a new toy or brought out that old one that you forgot about? Let me inspire you to be playful...make a day of it! Go into town and walk into an adult toy store! They are not what they used to be! Now many of them are in chic neighborhoods - and you will find people just like you in them! Walk around! Touch the toys! In many shops the toys are laid out like candy in sweet shop. There is helpful staff and cool books too! Have fun with it! And if that is too much for you - shop on line by yourself or with your sweetie. Be shameless!
Sex can be so many things. Our sexuality can be spiritual, naughty, full of desire, pleasure, and fun! Take your time and try it all on. Pleasure can be transformational...
