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Getting Lucky: The Uncertainty of Sexual Pursuit

No matter how we try to assure the result, seduction is fraught with ambiguity. Read More

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This is a good article, I should just lighten up and enjoy the uncertainty of not knowing the outcome. I, too suffers from sitting by the phone and waiting for the guy to call after the 1st encounter. It could get frustrating for someone like me.

Waiting by the phone

A certain amount of ambiguity is necessary, but a certain amount one can do something about. Many years ago I decided there was an alternative to waiting by the phone. You could call him. Sure, he could say no but you were no worse off knowing than you were when you sat there not knowing. Consider that next time.

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Isadora AlmanM.F.T., is a Board-certified sex, marriage, and family therapist, lecturer, author, and syndicated advice columnist of "Ask Isadora."

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