Sex & Sociability

Pirates for my privates!

Love it! I do exactly as you advise, it's how I keep my fiery sexuality to one person. Me and my boy have been together for over two years, we have not spent a day apart, and we always choose to hang out together over anyone else. And its not just me, the female, pushing him to spend time with me, in fact, he is the one who demands constant affection and understands the true value of spending time together. I'm learning a lot from him! I love him truly, but yes we all take for granted what we see every day. I feel uncomfortable fantasizing about other men, it makes me feel like I am not helping the boredom situation. So what I do, is relax, think back to the times leading up to our meeting, I focus on the feelings of lust and excitement I remember having, the way his skin smelled, the way he tried checking out my legs without me noticing!- and of course the fun days that followed as well as the experiences I shared that were particularly mind blowing. I can experience those feelings again, essentially by doing a small meditation on them. In all I practice monogamous thoughts, without expecting myself to always be perfect.