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Santorum is on to something when he says that sex “keeps civilization going.” But he’s wrong to credit only heterosexual reproductive sex. Read More
















Santorum need only to look to
Santorum need only to look to the Bible to see humans are naturally polygynous like the silverbacks.
I'm not convinced
I'm not convinced that homosexual sex serves any useful purpose for society. If all the homosexuals were killed, society wouldn't be at any kind of a loss. If all the women were killed, we would cease to exist as a species. If continually more males started to learn that the right way to have sex was with a homosexual partner, society would cease to exist, as well. Homosexual sex serves no useful purpose. I don't even have my doctorate and it's easy for me to see that idea.
Under the same rationale you
Under the same rationale you could eliminate all infertile people and post-menopausal women as well - as the article says. Or at least stop them from having sex. As their sex is not "useful" for reproduction - and if they didn't have sex society wouldn't fall apart - wouldn't it be more fair to believe that if gay people shouldn't have sex then anyone who is not able to reproduce should be banned from it too?
If others have to bear costs
If others have to bear costs from a group having sex, in the form of increased STD rates and subsidising cures and treatment, then they get a say in the sexual behavior of that group proportionate and reasonable to the costs they expand. At a minimum.
No one has a "human right" to a sexual life, although they may have the right to interference with them seeking one. Certainly no one has a right to treatment for any calamities they may incur during the process of seeking their sexual thrills (or any other kind of thrills). The latter of these is extended conditionally.
I would say people do have some limited rights to not be subjected to stimuli they find causes them disgust though.
Simple then: don't bear the
Simple then: don't bear the cost. Let individuals bear the consequences of their own decisions.
I would not doubt that, now that the 90s are behind us, homosexuals are at least as careful about safer sex practices as anyone else, if not moreso.
Are you as uptight about single men and single women hooking up for casual sex? If not, why not?
"No one has a "human right"
"No one has a "human right" to a sexual life, although they may have the right to interference with them seeking one."
RICK SANTORUM ACTUALLY COMMENTED
"RICK SANTORUM ACTUALLY
"RICK SANTORUM ACTUALLY COMMENTED"
Oh, where's the like button!?
Anywho, I would like to note to the first comment that other species that engage in homosexual sex and relationships (Bonobos come to mind first, but there are many!) have not simply forgone reproduction altogether and dwindled into nothingness. Obviously.
Furthermore, if we can arbitrate *human rights* based on the marginal cost that we as individuals of a society pay, (which defies the very definition of human rights) then I demand that we be able to ban Twinkies, cigarettes, and the Cosmopolitan magazine. (For its contribution in creating huge numbers of women who have eating disorders.) Also, hell, why stop at homosexual sex? Heterosexual sex creates lots of unwanted, expensive children to "put up with" as well.
Actually, we DO have the
Actually, we DO have the human right to a sexual life. Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs lists sex on the same level of *necessity for human survival* as food, water, breathing and shelter. Right smack dab in the Primary Tier of needs. Love, on the other hand, doesn't come into play until the Third Tier (Second Tier is secure housing and a steady income) along with friendship and emotional intimacy.
As Pierre Eliot Trudeau said in 1969 when he was our Prime Minister, "There's no place for the state in the bedrooms of the nation", adding that "what's done in private between adults doesn't concern the Criminal Code" as part of Criminal Law Amendment Act, 1968-69 (which decriminalized homosexual sex, legalized contraception and abortion nationwide - and we kept voting him into power into the 80s.) Hopefully one day other countries will produce statesmen with the same belief and vision.
If the purpose of
If the purpose of heterosexual sex is bonding first and reproduction second, the purpose of homosexual sex is bonding, full stop. Bonding between people serves society; If homosexuals couldn't have sex, they very likely would be a lot more frustrated, depressed, isolated etc etc etc which probably would hurt overall harmony and productivity in our society.
What you are questioning is the purpose of homosexuality itself, which I don't think Christopher Ryan has set out to investigate nor explain.
I'm not convinced that
I'm not convinced that genocide could be anything but deeply damaging to society.
"The right way to have sex"?
"The right way to have sex"? When did anyone say that homosexual sex is the "right way" to have sex? I don't recall that being stated anywhere. Yes, sex is required for reproduction (although with today's technology, that is no longer even an issue). If the only purpose of sex was to produce offspring, then our species would only have sex when the woman was completely fertile and ready to have a baby. But we don't. We, as humans, have sex whenever we feel like it, which goes against this idea of sex being simply for reproduction.
Reproduction is certainly A part of sex, but it's not the only part. Like this article states, sex is a social act. It brings people closer together, and makes them feel good. Honestly...do you know of many couples who are married and strictly have sex ONLY when the female is primed and ready to carry a child and DON'T get any sort of pleasure or enjoyment out of the act of having sex? My guess is that you don't.
I'm not convinced you understand empathy,
You do realize that women can be homosexual, right?
Maybe if you got your doctorate you'd be exposed to enough alternate lifestyles that you might be less judgmental of the ones that don't match your own.
Um, duh, of course he does.
Um, duh, of course he does. Homosexual men are depraved sodomists. Homosexual women are super hot lesbians that are really just straight women acting like they're attracted to other women to turn men on!
If we eliminated all gay
If we eliminated all gay people then we'd have to disband the military since all the service members are gay.
Let me convince you.
A disproportionat number of our artists and philosophers have been gay. Homosexuality has existed across all of time and in all cultures. Diversity creates strength wether in nature or human nature. These (and other) facts show me that homosexuality has a VITAL place in society. Another question could be, If all the homophobes were killed would society suffer?
God created sex. God made our
God created sex. God made our bodies “very good” with “male and female” parts and pleasures. When our first parents consummated their covenant, God was not shocked or horrified, because He created our bodies for sex. The reason that sex is fun, pleasurable, and wonderful is because it is a reflection of the loving goodness of God who created it as a gift for us to steward and enjoy
I think that killing an
I think that killing an entire group of people would be a bit more detrimental to society than people of the same gender having sex, but I suppose everyone is entitled to their opinion...
I think that killing an
I think that killing an entire group of people would be a bit more detrimental to society than people of the same gender having sex, but I suppose everyone is entitled to their opinion...
Re: "Society wouldn't be at any kind of loss"
Really, now? "Society wouldn't be at any kind of loss?" Below is a random list of gay people in political and cultural history. I just included a random sampling of a few of them. If you can read over this list and still say "society wouldn't be at any kind of a loss" without their contributions, then I respectfully suggest you must be an uneducated, uncultured fool.
Edward Albee
Czar Alexander I
Alexander the Great
Hans Christian Andersen
Susan B. Anthony
W.H. Auden
Josephine Baker
James Baldwin
Samual Barber
Leonard Bernstein
Benjamin Britten
Truman Capote
Richard Chamberlain
Queen Christina of Sweden
Noel Coward
E.M. Forster
Michael Foucault
Will Geer
George Gershwin
Roman Emperor Hadrian
John Maynard Keynes
Leonardo da Vinci
Michelangelo
Cole Porter
Francis Poulenc
Maurice Ravel
Eleanor Roosevelt
Bayard Rustin
Stephen Sondheim
Gertrude Stein
Alice B. Toklas
Peter Iljits Tchaikovsky
Gianni Versace
Gore Vidal
Tennessee Williams
Virginia Woolf
I'm rather disappointed in
I'm rather disappointed in you for not mentioning Alan Turing.
what a horrible assumption
@jtyrelb: once again, you are of the ilk that reduces the worth of gay people, or women, to their sexual organs and reproductive ability. The OTHER things that keep our species going, IS compassion, creativity, ethics, love, courage, intelligence. Any species can reproduce.
But humans are unique that beyond that, they have skills that are far more cooperative. Think about the collective intelligence that builds the space shuttle. Or created vaccines, surgical techniques and medical equipment that expands our progress and survival. Non parental and parental couples are both important to the support of any given community. For it's non parents whose income is taxed heavier, who labor at longer hours and if the parents are killed, take over the duties of that void in a child's life.
Santorum and his ilk are so devoid of imagination, and refuse to give credit where it's due. Especially to the gay community, who could and should be extraordinary ALLIES in life's journey we all must take. Hand in hand.
Indeed, only recently Alan Turing was posthumously apologized to by the British government, and he's been honored for his participation in war intelligence. He was THE most instrumental in cracking the Enigma Code of the Nazis. Perhaps but for him, billions of lives would either have been lost, or many countries would be saluting Seig Hiel and expanded fascism in way no one wants to think about.
Alan Turing was gay, and punished for it.
But he saved so many lives, without actually being a father himself.
You see no purpose in gay sex? I see no purpose in your prejudice, stereotyping and disgraceful lack of understanding that gay sex is important to GAY PEOPLE. And as pointed out, it's for the purpose ALSO of bonding, of affection, of expression of love. Which is a very healthy thing for ALL humans.
The constant expectation that gay people give up or be expected to never have such a thing in their lives. To live isolated from having a family, or forming a romantic bond, or caring for children, IS another calculated cruelty that certainly has no purpose WHATSOEVER.
Easy to see ideas are
Easy to see ideas are generally wrong.
For one thing you are confusing society with propagation, and even then you are clearly not thinking too deeply. Given the amount of care a human requires throughout childhood, their survival is dramatically increased by having non-reproducing individuals in their group who can give support to the parents.
Other than that, to borrow your words, I'm not convinced that you serve any useful purpose for society. And if you were killed, society wouldn't be at any kind of a loss. In fact I suspect we would see a very slight increase in general happiness and goodwill across the globe. ;p
Re: I'm not convinced
If all the homosexuals were killed (what a chilling proposition, btw), there would most certainly be a cultural and social vacuum. But yes, our species would survive, even if our society were impoverished in that way.
No need to fear more males "learning" to be homosexual, since sexual orientation is not a learned behaviour. There will always be a non-heterosexual minority just as there always has been. Biologically speaking, humanity thrives on genetic diversity -- even when our ideologies disagree with nature. Nature doesn't care about opinions. This holds whether or not you have a doctorate, or the ability to easily "see" what you already believe.
You do know that in World War
You do know that in World War Two, homosexuals also ended up in the concentration camps along with Jews, gypsies, communists, mentally ill people and intellectuals (the homosexuals were mandated by law to wear pink triangle badges). So, Hitler already TRIED to mass exterminate gay people and look where that got him?
Re: I'm not convinced
If all the homosexuals were killed (what a chilling proposition, btw), there would most certainly be a cultural and social vacuum. But yes, our species would survive, even if our society were impoverished in that way.
No need to fear more males "learning" to be homosexual, since sexual orientation is not a learned behaviour. There will always be a non-heterosexual minority just as there always has been. Biologically speaking, humanity thrives on genetic diversity -- even when our ideologies disagree with nature. Nature doesn't care about opinions. This holds whether or not you have a doctorate, or the ability to easily "see" what you already believe.
Re: I'm not convinced
If all the homosexuals were killed (what a chilling proposition, btw), there would most certainly be a cultural and social vacuum. But yes, our species would survive, even if our society were impoverished in that way.
No need to fear more males "learning" to be homosexual, since sexual orientation is not a learned behaviour. There will always be a non-heterosexual minority just as there always has been. Biologically speaking, humanity thrives on genetic diversity -- even when our ideologies disagree with nature. Nature doesn't care about opinions. This holds whether or not you have a doctorate, or the ability to easily "see" what you already believe.
Homosexual sex serves
Homosexual sex serves society, just not the branch that YOU encompass. Furthermore, your proposition of genocide against a naturally occurring minority is frightening to comprehend, and actually undermines your doctorate (whatever it may be, could have a doctorate in computer science) and your intelligence.
Reality doesn't fit what your preconceived notions are. That's called confirmation bias, and the people who oppress others are VERY good with it.
Like trying to tug on Superman's cape
Thankfully, I'm sure Santorum won't be bothering to pen anything titled "What Christopher Ryan Doesn't Know About Politics".
Are you seriously comparing
Are you seriously comparing Rick Santorum to Superman? Superman believes all beings are created equal--to the point where he not only DOESN'T use his phenomenal powers to his own benefit, but to help everyone he meets, without asking if, say, they are attracted to people of the same sex.
Santorum with Superman's powers would be a nightmare to the human race.
Superman, unfortunately, is fictional. Santorum, unfortunately, is not.
Laughable. Sex is not a glue
Laughable.
Sex is not a glue only, it is the source of competition that pushes society apart. That is why human societies, of a notably higher complexity than hunter gatherers, regulate sexual activity. Sexual competition does not particularly help us to build a stronger and more integrated society.
Sex is not particularly important in providing bonds between adults - Bonobo bullshit. Humans are beyond Bonobos - we don't need to be tricked by some ancient evolved reproductive response. We largely build stronger and better bonds without it. We are not chimps.
Sectors of society with a reproductive inclination towards sexuality do not have less successful societies. Other factors may confuse this at times, but it's just wrong to say that an "open" attitude to non-reproductive sex matters, or that its any more important than any other form of recreation.
After all the fucked up swinger experiments of the 60s, it's amusing that academics are STILL trying to persuade people that free love and increases in sociosexuality are good things, rather than mixed at best, possibly bad at worst.
Human reproduction is not a byproduct of human sexuality - that's a very sweeping judgement. There are societies with no concept of non-reproductive sex - not just "Western" Abrahmic ones, but there is an African tribal society like this (when the researchers asked them about masturbation and oral sex they could not understand the concept and viewed all sex as having a purpose that was to nourish a baby).
I'm an atheist and god has nothing to do with it.
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