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Gentlemen, are you worried that you might cheat on your partner but can't face an emotionally-wrenching conversation with her about the situation? Here's another option you might consider:
Christopher Ryan, Ph.D., is co-author of Sex at Dawn: The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality (HarperCollins 2010).
It can take a radical reboot to get past old hurts and injustices.