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Christopher Ryan, Ph.D. is co-author of Sex at Dawn: The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality (HarperCollins 2010). See full bio

Obama Kills a Fly

Does Obama's fly-swat offer political insight?

If you missed it, and are as interested in getting glimpses of Obama's inner world, take a look at this video of his confrontation with a persistent fly the other day. Of course, one never knows, but his approach to the situation appears to be classic Obama:

1. First, attempt to avoid confrontation via good humor. It's clear from the video that Obama is not a "fly hater." He's not looking for a fight with the fly. He tries to ignore it (are you paying attention Mr. Limbaugh?). He waves it away (Newt, are you listening?) with a smile and a good-natured, "Hey, get out of here." We might call this the attempt at bipartisanship phase.

2. But the fly soon demonstrates to everyone's satisfaction that it has no intention of letting the president get on with his work. No, this fly is going to ceaselessly buzz around, interrupting the work of superior species, causing irritation that benefits no one, reminding one and all of the death, decay, and defecation on which it feeds. So, attempts at peaceful co-existence exhausted, Obama draws into an intense focus, ignoring everything else while he glares at the fly, remaining utterly still and silent, presenting an inviting moment for the insect to land and relax. When it does, Obama strikes like a cobra. Sharp, quick, deadly.

3. With a gentle smile and a chuckle, he returns to the matter at hand, asking, "Now, where were we?"

Maybe all this means nothing. But, along with people like Bill Maher and David Sirota, my sincere admiration for Obama has been ebbing due to his hesitancy to enact the kinds of sweeping, radical reforms the country desperately needs (and on which he ran for office). From torture to health care reform to bank regulation and gay marriage rights, Obama's been waving his hands around a lot but not doing much ruthless swatting. I hope the fly incident shows that this is just Part 1 of a two-part process which leaves irritating, small-brained creatures stunned and silent on the carpet.

Update: In today's New York Times, Maureen Dowd examines the Obama vs. Fly confrontation. You read it here first! Read Dowd's take here.



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