Science and Sensibility

Dr Bill, Truly insightful article , one that allows as anger seem at times to close doors this opens ways to see beyond it all .

Especially a difficult this to do when one is in the heat of it or finds themselves in a place that they wish they could be a gennie and just blink to make it all stop . Often the latter in life for some is where difficulty is found as it may be a place that you do not find that you even have a voice in the thunder of someone else's rants or words . Even if you are to speak the words you may find yourself wondering why no one is hearing or may be it to be defined as listening . As so often so many do not want to hear what another has to say or feels . Anger for some seems to be a past time as for others as to say or me is one I would rather study about and find ways of just serving as it seems to take all the oxygen out of the room . Even if I am listening to what they are angry about I still wonder how it is that it go to this level do they want it to be or was it something that just have become used to do in their life . To where when ever they pleased they could do this yet if for others to want to even peep a word it throws the Candace of sorts off that they may have had in it all . Again I wonder why this is .
Does anger have place in our lives maybe as many times there are things that can happen that really you need to stand up for have voice . Yet to use it as a past time as some I wonder is there something I do not know , A new way to burn off calories . As for me I loose a bunch when someone is angry with me or at least it feels this way . Or is it something more they just want to be heard when they already had someone listen that would hear what they had to say . Yet they have found being a bully or hurting and using anger is the way to make a point in life . The point is clear after the smoke clears as one may be laying on the ground and the other feels to be the victor but why if to only have listened beyond their own anger then maybe they would have know they had someone listening that truly cared . Who is to know as anger as you have mentioned comes in many form , and the Budda quotes are powerful as just in few words it can envelope what it may all be about . Anger a thing that I would have preferred in life never to have seen or lived with though as I see others badly then how can I not say anger is not something we need . Maybe it is just how we show it and what the purpose is . A feeling we humans have , darn it all even in days when I look in the mirror and see another gray hair . Am I angry I prefer to say I just getting old . Guess I am a real wimp when it comes to anger ,though I rather live in peace then in hate . As we all walk this life together do we not together .