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Are You Falling Out of Love? A Quiz on 10 Warning Signs

Falling out of love has become the number one cause listed for divorce, at least according to a study in England. It's trumping even affairs and abuse in terms of frequency. The good news is that falling out of love is something you can prevent. How? Read More


I don't see how flirting carries the same weight as NOT believing your partner is a good person deep down.

Also your article contains multiple spelling errors.


Flirting for some is a minor problem. For other partners it totally corrodes trust and generates anger.

Thanks for the heads up on typos. I have checked those out and fixed all I found. If anyone finds more, which is likely, I'm open to hearing about them.

Thanks LR for sharing your reactions,


How i get my lover back

I am LARISSA, I promise to share this testimony all over the world once my boyfriend return back to me, and today with all due respect i want to thank DR.SUNSHINE for bringing joy and happiness to my relationship and my family. I want to inform you all that there is a spell caster that is real and genuine. I never believed in any of these things until i loosed my boyfriend, I required help until i found a grate spell caster, And he cast a love spell for me, and he assured me that I will get my boyfriend back in two days after the spell has been cast. Three days later, my phone rang, and so shockingly, it was my boyfriend who has not called me for past 6 years now, and made an apology for the heart break, and told me that he is ready to be my back bone till the rest of his life with me. DR.SUNSHINE released him up to know how much i loved and wanted him. And opened his eyes to picture how much we have share together. As I`m writing this testimony right now I`m the most happiest girl on earth and me and my boyfriend is living a happy life and our love is now stronger than how it were even before our break up. So that`s why I promised to share my testimony all over the universe.All thanks goes to DR.SUNSHINE for the excessive work that he has done for me. Below is the email address in any situation you are undergoing a heart break, and I assure you that as he has done mine for me, he will definitely help you Or that is his email address bye

general comments on your test.

I found the test to be EXCELLENT! Typos, who cares! I don't!!!!! Let's stay focused on the reason for the quiz people!
The quiz was very insightful and gave solutions for problems! Yay!
Even though my husband's answers indicated more satisfaction in our 13 year marriage than me, I am extremely hopeful at your suggestions and we are going to work on these at our own pace. Thank you very much for the Quiz. Just for kicks and giggles, I think you should make it your trademark to misspell at least ONE word. LOL. Thank you again.

Thank you, thank you!

First, I appreciate very much the positive feedback on this quiz's helpfulness for you and your spouse.

Second, I love your idea of making typos a trademark: maybe I'll start adding a note at the bottom of each blogpost that anyone who is first to tell me about a typo gets a free copy of my book The Power of Two.

Warmest thanks for your comments--

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Susan Heitler, Ph.D., is the author of many books, including From Conflict to Resolution and The Power of Two. She is a graduate of Harvard University and New York University.


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