A thought-provoking survey released by Match.com makes the controversial claim that a woman's concept of Mr. Right changes as she ages. They found that the qualities women desire most from their men can be catagorized by age ranges. The survey showed that in the age range 18-24, women want a partner who is compatible with their friends and that their friends would approve of the partner. In the age range 25-34 the survey discovered that women sought the values of physical attractiveness, sexual compatibility and ambition in their Prince Charming. In the older 35-44 age range women told the researchers that they wanted an older man who is well mannered, established, stable and successful. In the middle age range of 45-54 women were looking for a man who made them feel secure. And in the 55 and over age range women were the most selective, valuing intelligence, sense of humor, personality and sexual compatibility. By "sexual compatibility" the women were referring to the frequency of sexual relations.
The most fascinating thing about the survey was how on first blush, the values of the youngest group seemed codependent but actually are quite healthy. In the 18-24 year old range, women were wisely getting feedback from those who know and love them best and making sure the new beau will fit in before committing to a relationship. Women are wise to make their close personal female friendships a priority. Relationships with other women enable them to express feelings and share common interests that have always been an important part of their lives.By nurturing friendships throughout the development of a new romance, women retain trusted confidants with whom to share their ups and downs and gain valuable feedback from a distictly female point of view.