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Cultural competence is not only a key aspect of psychology, but it is becoming a necessity for navigating our increasingly diverse society. Knowing our blind spots is key when it comes to sensitive topics such as race. And Dr. Laura appears to have some baggage to process before she is quick to invalidate another person's experience of racial discrimination. Read More











She is not a Psychologist
I have recently heard of this situation and I needed to investigate a little more about Dr. Laura because I've noticed that many TV/Radio personalities have shows but lack credentials.
I like to look at people's backgrounds and education because I believe this gives them credibility. For example,the educational background of some of the "conservative" talk show hosts and found some interesting information. For example,the fact that Sean Hannity dropped out of college and so did Glenn Beck but somehow they are now the voice of reason to millions of Americans.
Dr. Laura is also labeled as a "conservative" talk radio host which for some reason in the last couple of months this only means that her target audience is probably not that diverse. She graduated with a Ph.D in Physiology in 1974, she didn't graduate with a Ph.D in Psychology. She graduated in 1974, ten years after the civil rights movement at a time where I'm sure (assuming) having ethnic classes in college was not a common practice. Dr. Laura sounded very ignorant about the subject.
She managed to put in a comment about President Obama, she said that most "Black" people voted for Obama simply because he was black without giving much thought. Again, offending the African American voter, as if African American voters couldn't evaluate the quality of the candidates from both sides, insulting an entire group of people by making assumptions. If I recall correctly, Jessie Jackson also run for President and so did Reverend Al Sharpton but they didn't make it to the ballots.
I agree that using the "N" word was not the only issue but of course it's the one that made the news. Now, she kept saying that why was it okay for an African American males could call themselves "N" but someone out of their race couldn't. I don't think she understand that there is a difference between the "N" word used by an out-group member versus usage by an in-group member. Now, had she been a trained Psychologists she would know the difference because these are basic Social Psych terms. In addition, there is a difference on the way the word is pronounced by in-groups vs. out-groups as well.
Now, you don't have to have a PH.D in Psychology to understand that when a person complaints about something that is bothering them, it doesn't matter what the listener thinks at that moment what matters is the way it makes the other person feels. This is also basic Psych, which I'm sure most of us take as part of our General Ed in college. Dr. Laura went on to judge this person by calling her hypersensitive, well some of us have issues that are close to our hearts, should we all be labeled hypersensitive? Then she went on to talk about how hypersensitive people should not marry out of their race as if racists remarks should be expected in doing so.
It was obvious that Dr. Laura has racial issues and needs serious help.
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Dr. Laura Schlessinger's blind spots
Dr. Banks bravo! What a calm, balanced perspective on Dr. Schlesinger's moment of channeling Don Imus. She either gained or lost clients seeking comrades with similar blinders, which makes it a zero sum non game changer and why have therapists at all if they leave us where we were in the first place?
Rhetoric v. Words
Thank for you this, Dr. Banks! You've really captured the core issues with "Dr. Laura's" rampage. Black people and other racial/ethnic minority groups are often accused of being hypersensitive about race but I think Dr. Laura's response is a manifestation of racial hypersensitivity that is often ignored - the anger, passion and blind insistence that we not continue to acknowledge racial realities.
Re: Counseling 101 ... I think Dr. Laura may have missed that lesson in her training as Physiologist or her doctoral work with insulin levels in rats.
Dr. Laura's Rant
Thank you Dr. Banks for not only focussing on Dr. Laura using the "N" word but how horrible she was to the caller. The media is once again being destracted by the words and not the attitudes behind the words. That caller could have been one word away from suicide and that call could have been her life line (but we see how that turned out). i would like for them to see how the caller is doing now and if she would like to talk to someone more qualified with COMPASSION!
The Public's Rant of Dr. Laura
The real issue here is not Dr. Laura's rant specifically, but the tolerance of black's use of the "N" word and the persecution of anyone else who mimics them.
Why the double standard? In fact, anyone who complains about a non-black's use of the "N" word loses all credibility with me, instantly.
If you want people to quit using the "N" word then black's need to set the example, not everyone else.
Did you actually read Dr.
Did you actually read Dr. Banks' analysis? Schlessinger's word choice is a trivial issue compared to her cultural insensitivity in general, and her response to Jade, in particular.
Here's the real issue, "Why do you want/need to use the N-word"!!!
I was not going to response to this blog because it seemed to be intended for people in this field. Up until this point, most if not all of the respondents addressed why Dr. Laura's comments were off base from a professional, clinical psychologist, point of view. They all clearly stated that it was more than the use of the N word that was the problem with her remarks. It was the fact that her remarks/rhetoric after the use of the word were unprofessional, inappropriate and incompetent. It was pointed out that her degree was in physiology not psychology. So what even makes her qualified to counsel anyone about anything, much less, than a subject as complicated, sensitive and politically charged as race and racism. Dr. Laura's target audience was this respondent, not the caller. So Doctors, allow me...
Robert Jones, if you are a clinically trained psychologist or are in some related field, you should provide facts and data to support Dr. Laura's actions or your positions stated on this blog. Instead all you want to focus on is the use of the N word. The real issue is "Why would any decent, intelligent, well intended, white person want or feel the need to, and so strongly defend their right to use the N-word?" Why black people use the word among themselves is an issue that community has to work out for themselves. There could be only one reason why you and like minded people like you, want to make the argument for the use of this historically racist, inflammatory, dehumanizing word, you are a racist. It's more victimization of the victim.
What this really is is the evolution of racism. When you and members of the group who created the N-word, as well as the concept of race, to justify the kidnapping, dehumanization, inhumane subjugation and exploitation of another human being for economic gain, address how you can dismiss these historical facts and why you feel the need to use the word, then we might consider entertaining your ignorant, arrogant, self-indulgent, white privileged, racist question of "Why the double standard?". The N-word is just a symptom of the problem. To fix a problem you must go to the root cause of it and extirpate it from the root. You must go back to the origin of the problem because if you start out wrong you will end up wrong. You don't have black people using the N-word if you don't have; the advent of race and the N-word, over 300 years of kidnapping, murder, rape and enslavement, followed by 100 years of Jim Crow apartheid, terrorism and oppression of one group of human beings to the point where some of them choose (for whatever reason) to use the very word that epitomized the false concept of their inferiority and their oppressors superiority. So Robert Jones, when you and the group (White America) resolve those issues and then answer why it is so important for you to use the N-word, you and anyone outside of the black community cannot use it without facing some serious consequences.
Black people have a lot of issues to resolve and questions to answer in their own community but race and racism is not one. Race & racism is White Americas' burden, not Black Americas'. You fix that and you'll be surprised how quickly most of all of America’s problems would be resolved.
Don't NAACP me
This was an extremely disturbing, but not surprising response from Dr. Laura. However, I stopped listening to Laura approximately 7 years ago, and if Jade has been listening to her, she would have known (not guessed) that this would be Laura's position. She has made no secrets regarding how she feels about issues of ethnicity. I am a black woman married to a Jewish man for 21 years, and I guess I should not have married outside of my race, because we are both hypersensitive about the "N" word.
(By the way, if she had earned her Ph.D. she would have known that any anthropologist will provide evidence that their is only one race)
However, Laura has been officially outed as many others after Obama was elected. She has had many tirades and has hung up on many callers when she has had an opportunity to push her political agenda. I am pleased that it's out there. Now her sponsors will
have to make some serious decisions regarding their support of this forum.
Respectfully
Cultural competence is a pre-requisit for her public position
I think "Dr. Laura" needs to be stopped, her ignorance has gone way past the boundaries. She thinks her outspokenness is cute and this is largely the result of media and fans who help encourage her verbosity.
We must remember that she is not a PSYCHOLOGIST, nor is she a mental health professional (she has minor certification in marriage and family issues).
Therefore, she is not trained to work effectively with individuals, especially an individual from a culturally diverse group. She is too touchy and needs to be corrected. Her apology is not enough; she was clearly unprofessional and her behaivior was a terrible example for developing individuals within the field of counseling, psychotherapy, and mental health.
HYPERSENSITIVITY? Essentially, I think she's become a firm example of the detrimental effects of one not culturally competent.
Before she is allowed to go any further, someone over her needs to require that she seek out continuing education on diversity and the new cultural movement among academics and aspiring mental health professionals today. Her job should be postponed until she meets the criteria (through continuing education) of cultural competence. While she may not be a mental health professional, she is in the forefront as if she is and this requires the appropriate training.
Thanks for your thoughts
Thanks for taking the time to share your thoughts. I am aware Dr. Laura did not receive her PhD in a counseling field. However, I feel as if she should be held accountable for some of the basics as she takes calls on the air. Having her take continuing ed credits is an interesting requirement.
@Robert Jones- I would reiterate that the post is not about the n-word. There was much more that was problematic with Dr. Laura's rant. Personally, I agree it should not be used by anyone. However, I believe getting sidetracked in that debate actually draws attention away from what is most wrong with Dr. Laura's comments.
What a poser!
These days, too many people entrust their judgment and analyses on talk show hosts and stop thinking critically. I concluded a while ago that Dr. Laura, like Dr. Phil and many others, was a poser and incompetent from the first few times I listened to her. From the excerpt this past week, just listen to the tone of her voice and you can pick up on the baggage and arrogance.
" Cultural competence is not
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Cultural competence is not only a key aspect of psychology, but it is becoming a necessity for navigating our increasingly diverse society. Knowing our blind spots is key when it comes to sensitive topics such as race. And Dr. Laura appears to have some baggage to process before she is quick to invalidate another person's experience of racial discrimination.
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this is the most offensive thing ever. know our blind spots, with sensitive topics? why do blacks get so much special treatment, but other minorities (especially the fairly unknown ones) get none?
could it be, *gasp* that special treatment of any kind is wrong, since no one can know everything? no one can pander to everyone's sensitivities. at some point, you have to learn that you cannot expect everyone you meet to know everything about your background, and how to avoid painful topics.
liberal guilt never ceases to amaze me. you turn a blind eye to many new minorities, especially among whites, yet obsess over being "sensitive" over *past* history of a few *favored* groups.
tell me, why was I denied a good public education? why do liberals fight against charter schools and vouchers, which might have lessened the burden of my parents having to homeschool me by themselves?
how am I not discriminated against, by those who profess to fight it? I'm a walking statistical outlier, in so many ways. liberal power-mongering, one-size-fits-all policies have put huge obstacles in my life.
you can see why I look down on people like the author, who whines about being sensitive to things that happened decades ago. of course, only nonwhites and nonasians are allowed any of this special treatment.
I'd be interested in how your
I'd be interested in how your read of the comments suggest that Black people should got special treatment.
My assertion that we should know our blindspots is not about giving any one group special attention. It refers to being self aware when we talk to others- about whatever topics might push our own buttons.
For example, if we know we are uncomfortable or have work to do around sexual orientation or even something as simple as our own beliefs about how children should be raised, or a conflict should be resolved, we should be aware not to let our own "stuff" get in the way of listening to, hearing and possibly helping others. It's not easy for sure, but if we are honest with ourselves, we know what those topics are (sometimes not until they come up for the first time).
So, I'm unclear where the bit about favored groups or obsessing about the past comes from. This post could have just as easily been about someone being dismissive of a member of a number of "groups." It's more generally about respecting the multiple identity groups that make up who we are rather than one specific group.
Society is made up of dozens
Society is made up of dozens of silent minority groups, and many of them are not really well understood (even by those of us in them). It's completely impossible to be sensitive to all of them, when you cannot even know what they all are.
Part of respect is treating someone like an adult, not like a helpless child. When I hear logic like this, I think of three cousins and four aunts I have, who were pulled into the welfare incentive hell.
I think of their children, who may never have the opportunities I have, even with welfare reform. I think of my parents, who found that all the money in the world couldn't help those they cared about. I think of my grandparents, who watched the poverty cycle that started with some of their children repeat across generations.
And then I look at the Al Sharpton, Jesse Jackson-spawned black culture, and I see a situation so much worse. I see millions of young black kids, denied any future at all by a system that is far, far more entrapping then any white poverty trap I've ever heard of.
We obsess over "white culture" here in America. Do you know what I've found? Middle class culture is the same all over the world, from Japan to Costa Rica to Argentina to Europe. That's been my personal experience (I work with people who live all over the world).
I'm sorry, but I don't accept that treating blacks as inferior, helpless children will make them successful. I think Asians have proved that. Blacks should be treated as fully equal, fully *capable* adults. Every bit as capable as any human being. They have problems in life because of *poverty traps*, not because of discrimination.
Obstacles, even outright discrimination--these don't have to stop you from achieving success. I know, because I have to deal with so many; it's not from being bisexual either, I'm among the so-called "invisibly disabled".
People like me who understand this, do very well. People like Japanese-Americans, who (if I remember right) are now the highest-income ethnic minority in the U.S.
Have blacks done as well? Has our constant, condescending pandering helped them? Has it helped Native Americans? When will we finally admit that free lunches and special treatment harms people, their children, their childrens' children, across generations?
Again, I would ask where in
Again, I would ask where in this article do you see a suggestion to pander or condescend anyone, in particular, Black people? What logic do you understand as treating someone like a helpless child?
And to the point about it being impossible to be sensitive to everything. Of course, that is why we are constantly working to be self-aware and open to feedback about how we are perceived by others. That is the work. It's not about being perfect, it's about being open to recognizing our growth edges and not getting defensive.
Dr. Laura was not being
Dr. Laura was not being racist, in no way shape or form. She was *insensitive*, yet you yourself said she had "racial issues."
Some segments of black culture truly are disturbing and horrifying, especially for their effect on young black children. It isn't racist to say this, it is simply the truth. It may be insensitive, but that isn't the same thing.
Being insensitive does not make someone a racist.
Frankly, it enrages me that I was fed all sorts of messages of black integration, from mass media to middle-class blacks, only to discover what black leaders have been doing to poor blacks for decades. Poverty traps are terrifying enough without being reinforced by populist monsters.
I'm not going to stand for it. It will end, and I'm not alone. There are courageous black leaders, not the least of which is our president (much as I disagree with him on other issues at times). I also think more and more whites will tire of allowing this to continue, when it is so incredibly unjust.
Anyway, I'm going off on
Anyway, I'm going off on tangents here. I just wanted you to know how emotional an issue this is. I'm not sure I can describe how terrifying and helpless it is when people you care about are sucked into a poverty trap. Often times no amount of help or money can save them.
The fact that a few evil black leaders actively reinforce this...I think we can one day solve generic poverty traps, but how do you help a subculture repressed by it's own leaders?
...and I forgot to add, this
...and I forgot to add, this is why I think Dr. Laura had some justification for her behavior, and certainly wasn't racist. Sometimes people freak out about these things, no matter how politically incorrect it may be to do so.
Ah, she'd freak out because
Ah, she'd freak out because of how disturbing the oversensitivity was, from that perspective. I'm doing a really bad job making my point; too tired.
Anyway, mindlessly writing her off as a hateful bigot is wrong and, frankly, intolerant. There are serious, highly emotional issues here, ones that too many people refuse to acknowledge.
Thank you for sharing your
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I would encourage you to consider that I did not call her "racist." Someone having racial issues or racial baggage does not immediately make them racist in my opinion. Our history has a history that makes us all susceptible to coughing up racial smog. I would argue that naming that fact is not "spewing" negativity. You anger with leadership has validity. Yet, calling Dr. Laura on her comments is far from enabling. In fact, I would argue that her painting all Blacks as monolithic is part of the problem that perpetuates people getting stuck in negativity (both people perceiving Blacks in a singular negative way and Black people buying into the false narrative).
Human beings cannot know
Human beings cannot know everything, or be aware (or even know of) every single minority group. Most people overcome some form of discrimination, from the well-meaning as often as the bigoted. I know this very well; the invisibly disabled are treated as second-class citizens in today's society, and in most cases it's unintentional.
I learned the hard way that asking for special favors solves nothing. It is simply not possible to hand out enough special favors to cover every minority group; it is not possible to even identify all of them. Rugged self-sufficiency should be the dominant theme here, not guilt-ridden condescension from the upper class.
Dependency must be fought at all costs. Economic support is necessary at times, but it should only be "at times." People must be encouraged to aim for the skies.
Anyway, I guess this is more a general point then a specific reply.
blacks: do what you want,
blacks: do what you want, live your dreams, be happy and focus on the positive. you can always succeed, it's just a matter of how much failure you can tolerate, for how many years (it's very unpleasant, but focusing on the positive helps get through it). you are all capable of great success in life, like every human being. don't believe any of the shit people like this author spews out.
especially, don't give in to privileged, wealthy, powerful people, who tell you it's too hard, there are too many obstacles. they don't understand that prosperity comes from you, not money, not random luck. human beings are the ultimate source of all wealth.
@Joe; You've got some wise
@Joe; You've got some wise words that everybody needs to read, not just blacks. Looking into my heritage I can say that the oppressed weren't all black and oppressors weren't all white (as implied by others).
Dr Laura doesn't have a Phd? That is a good thing in my eyes. Academia is not the only world and while it should be honored in some instances (research etc), it is out of its scope in issues that involve coping with real life.
Her opinions are slanted to the right? Does that mean the opinions of the majority of the industry is slanted to the left?
Whether the "n" word is rightfully or wrongfully included in the "too offensive", I think it should be avoided but I don't think the government should regulate it. However, it is a matter of respect for those who see it as intolerable. I feel the same about the "f" word.
As someone who rarely, but occasionally gives into rage, I understand her embarrassment. She did the honorable thing by stepping out of the picture and taking responsibility for her mistake.
Overall, she was insensitive and unprofessional and needs to be reprimanded for that.
Bad advice
I would say "Dr." Laura is driving people away from therapy. Who would pay good money for that kind of "advice"? The doctor reminds me of a character from the novel Survivor by Chuck Palahniuk. Somebody who gives out bad advice to serve their own needs.
As a psychologist, it would be interesting to know who listens to her show and why.
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