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Why Are Teens So Angry?

Are Teens of Today's Generation Angrier Than Past Generations?

"Can you believe that Amy Winehouse only had three million dollars to her name when she passed?"

This was a statement made by a disc jockey on a rhythm and blues radio station. I get where the DJ was coming from, in regards to how Amy squandered her wealth due to her disease. However what about the millions of teenagers listening to that show and subsequently the DJ's statement.

Only three million dollars? So what does that mean? One has to wonder, if the DJ herself is a millionaire? Just how much does the DJ have to her name?

The point is that pretentious statements like these lead young people who don't know any better to experience feelings of inadequacy. Feelings of inadequacy resulting from living in a consumerist society is the number one reason why teens today are angrier than generations past. (This is simply my opinion.)

Well over ninety-nine percent of them are not millionaires and neither are their parents. Yet a vast majority of them are consistently exposed to propaganda courtesy of mass media and advertisers that states they should be worth so much and should have certain high value items. Those of you who follow this blog will remember this post about a high school-er who forced her mother to buy her a car at gun point, because she had earned good grades.

So what can parents do about their angry teens, particularly surrounding their teens issues with feelings of inadequacy?

I would like for you to listen to this radio interview with host Dr. Regina Rei Lamourelle  and guest Dr. Regalena "Reggie" Melrose and myself, where we discuss the phenomenon regarding today's generation of angry teens and what we can do about it.

I would like to point out that my assertion of inadequacy as one of the reasons why teens of this generation are so angry is really one of a number of reasons, a good number of which are discussed in the interview.

For my proposed solution on how to go about addressing the issue of inadequacy today's teens struggle with, I invite you to visit my anger management blog.

So what are your thoughts and feelings about this post? Do you feel you have a better argument? If so please leave your appropriate comments in the comment section.

Ugo is psychotherapist and owner of Road 2 Resolutions, a private professional counseling and life coaching practice in Tucson AZ.


 



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Ugo Uche is a Licensed Professional Counselor who specializes in adolescents and young adults.

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