Peacemeal

Creating a life of harmony one choice at a time.

by Elaine Shpungin

The Danger of Compromise

The hidden costs of one of our favorite ways of approaching conflict. Read More

The Key to Getting the Relationship and Love You Want

Improve your relationships today with this essential, yet simple, question. Read More

Is Your Way of Sharing Leadership Hurting Your Relationship?

The hidden dangers of lopsided leadership at home - and one surprising strategy that may help re-balance yours. Read More

How to Go From Regret to Reconnection in 4 Simple Steps

Have you ever wished you could 'un-say' something the minute it comes out of your mouth? Or wished you could rewind an argument to that crucial moment - and respond differently this time? With this simple technique you can can virtually turn back the clock - while simultaneously teaching your mind to do it differently in the future. Read More

Get More of What You Want - In Bed and Out

A low-risk, playful strategy for making those hard-to-say requests easier and more fun. Read More

Out With the Old, Out With the New: One Child's Experience of Voluntary Simplicity

What happens when one kid tries to live with less? Read More

How to Survive and Thrive When Times are Tough

Weather life's storms more effectively with these 4 tested tips. Read More

Can We Harness Nature to Increase Our Happiness?

How can we harness the turning of the seasons to be more successful, productive and peaceful? Read More

From Sibling Conflict to Sibling Camaraderie: Part 2

I have been pleased and gratified by the enthusiastic response to my article on addressing conflict between children in a variety of settings (3 Steps That Transform Sibling Conflict into Sibling Camaraderie). "Part 2" presents more tips and suggestions for making the process effective. Read More

The Restorative Revolution: It's Coming

This revolution will not be bloody but it's coming just the same. Read More

How to Say Thank You Without Notes, Quotes, or Photo Totes

Gratitude without grouchiness. No pens, printers or platitudes required. Read More

Improving Connection When it Counts - using the PEN Method

With so much potential for both disagreement and discovery - for both gaining and losing closenes - family gatherings around the holidays can feel like an emotional casino.

When disagreements become fruitless or "stuck", this effective method can help you shift conversation to a place of mutual connection. Read More

Speaking While Upset: Moving from Destructive to Constructive in 6 Simple Steps

Why are your "talks" about difficult and painful topics still unsatisfying and unproductive even after you take time to "calm down?" How can you shift these communications from fault finding and defensiveness to listening and being heard? How do you finally move from Destructive to Constructive conversations? Read More