Dr. Drew is always good for shedding light on mental health issues; Keri Ann's passive aggressive note to Kendra, on the third episode of VH-1's "Sex Rehab," ought to provide some good material to process in the group's sessions. Check out this clip to watch passive aggresion in action:
Notice how Keri Ann, unwilling to own her own anger, declares, "This is her anger..." referring to her castmate, Kendra. Passive aggressive people operate by getting others to act out the anger that they are harboring. If you have time, check out the rest of the episode and watch how Kendra is hooked into the passive aggressive dance.
What do you think about how Keri Ann signs the note? "I'd love to be your friend...Love, Keri Ann xoxo" A little incongruous with the tone of the rest of the message, right? Another classic passive aggressive tactic. This gives Keri Ann the ability to deny her anger when confronted and to insist, "See...I was trying to be her friend..."