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Tips for dealing with emotional eating during the holiday season (and beyond)

How to decrease overeating

The holidays are upon us. The santas are ringing their bells on the street corners, the decorations are in the store windows, and holiday tunes seem to play from every speaker in NYC. If these images bring up more anxiety than feelings of joy and merryment- you are not alone. The American Psychological Association reports that over 3/4 of all Americans experience higher than healthy levels of stress, and these statistics skyrocket during the holiday season. The holiday season brings with it social obligations, visiting family, disruptions from your regular routine, and how to afford all of those gifts?? It is easy to cope with these stresses by turning to food, which happens to be overly abundant this time of year. Try these tips to minimize emotional overeating this holiday season:

1. Check in with yourself before you eat. Are you hungry? If not, what are you experiencing? If you notice that you have the desire to eat because you are having an emotional reaction, try to identify what you are feeling and do something that more directly addresses the feeling. For example, if you have the desire to eat because you feel sad, try calling a comforting friend or listening to your favorite music rather than eating a pint of ice cream. Eating the ice cream may result in temporary relief of sadness while its going down, but you'll only feel worse after you eat it. You'll end up with 2 problems instead of 1-the original sadness plus the feelings from having overeaten.

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2. If you decide that you are going to eat, do so mindfully. Turn off the television, put away your magazine, sit down, and focus on your food. Use all of your senses to observe the appearance, texture, smells, sounds, and tastes of the food. Try to stop eating when you feel satisfied, not when you feel stuffed.

3. Know your triggers. Try to observe what types of events trigger episodes of emotional overeating. Some people find it useful to keep a journal to monitor this. At the end of each day, jot down if you had an episode of emotional eating and what was happening before this episode. Patterns often emerge. If you start to see that everytime you go shopping with your critical sister you come home and eat a bag of potato chips, you can prepare yourself. Next time you plan a shopping trip with Ms. Areyousureyoudontneedonesizeupinthat, plan an enjoyable activity afterwards, maybe a movie or a phone call with that supportive friend we mentioned earlier.

Notice that I said these were tips for minimizing emotional overeating, not eliminating it. If you are someone who relies on food to cope with stress, then following these tips may be quite difficult for you. Make small goals. Reducing your overeating by even 1 episode per week is something to be proud of. You're on your way to making healthy changes.

 



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Alexis Conason, Psy.D. is a clinical psychologist in practice in New York City and a researcher at the New York Obesity Nutrition Research Center at St. Luke's-Roosevelt Hospital.

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