Married and Still Doing It

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Extra Whipped Cream and Sexual Pursuers

I asked for extra whipped cream when I bought an ice cream sundae with my family last weekend.  Piles of whipped cream and mounds of fluff came out positively billowing on top of the melting soft vanilla covered in hot fudge.  I was surprised.  I always ask for extra whipped cream and I've never had floating clouds of it on anything I've ever ordered.  I was happy but told m Read More

I commented on the other

I commented on the other article about the distancer sounding like my wife. Then I read this one and it sounds like me. My problem is what if we do this, what if we are positive about things with our partner who is a distancer, but it still doesn't change? As a persuer, what are you going to do if they remain a distancer even after talking about things? I think my comment in the article about the distancer explains it more.

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Laurie Watson is an AASECT certified sex therapist and licensed couple’s therapist. She lectures at Duke University’s Medical Schooland is the clinical director for Awakenings in Raleigh, North Carolina.

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