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First, the Gores break up. Then our local Minnesota Congressman and first Muslim in the House of Representatives Keith Ellison files for divorce. Normally I might look to a high profile wedding as a sign of hope, but the week ended with 59 year old Rush Limbaugh’s fourth marriage, this one to a 33 year old woman whom he met during the divorce of his third wife. For his fourth Read More
















I wonder what Elton John was thinking...
it was probably in line with some deconstructionist notion of using irony to throw down on the oppressor.
Limbaugh - and Elton John perfect together ??????
Rush has lost his mind - after all his rants about gays and his anti-gay rhetoric he pays Elton John to sing and play at his 4th wedding .......what a hypocrite !
Sorry, it's obvious that you
Sorry, it's obvious that you want to jump on people who are against gay marriages but Elton John is against it too. And also, do you always ask people whom you hire to see if their personal views are in line with yours?
Lib's do
>...do you always ask people whom you hire to see if their personal views are in line with yours?
Most Lib's do. That is why conservatives in the entertainment business keep their politics to themselves. This according to Jerry Doyle of Babylon 5 fame. Speak out as a conservative and you don't get anymore work.
This in a town that has yet to stop whining about the studio's black lists to avoid the publicity of the McCarthy hearings.
Rush does not believe Rush and he needs a history lesson
Rush Limbaugh having Elton John sing at his wedding Rush shows Rush does not even believe Rush! He makes his money spreading lies, hatred, racism, anti-gay sentiments, etc. He is the perfect case of do as I say not as I do.
His actions speak better for his character: drug abuse, multiple marriages, indulgence in food as noted in his waist line. He makes Henry the VIII make since today. Henry did not like the rules so he change the language and the religion, Rush does not like the rules so he reinvents them or lies about them on a daily bases on his talk shows.
We have free speech in America but we also have a lot of uneducated people and / or poorly educated people today in America. Instead of growing up and taking responsibility of their own minds by attending classes at local community / university colleges or Adult education classes they passively rely on large money earning talk show host and fake news networks to give them their daily dose of propaganda.
History does repeat itself, Germany is referenced often in the talk host rhetoric about Nazi, if those talk host had paid attention in their history class in high school they would know Hitler’s' main brain washing tactic was to repeatedly talk against groups of people he deemed unworthy to live in Germany then other countries, he stated this rhetoric to the population in his country that was the extreme right the part of society who deemed their existence as superior to the minorities groups. When the minorities groups collectively create a majority then the once majority feel threaten and the pendulum swings so far right that the world turns upside down by their violent actions of attempting to regain their once power.
Corporate Businesses have a part in this as they have sent the manufacturing jobs overseas where they can produce unsafe products under slave wages to sell in our country to lower wage workers left to work in the service industry here at home in entertaining our depressed society.
As well as right wing politicians that hide under the banner of conservative but they really are money seeking racists. They are willing to pay for guns and wars with tax payer’s money but not food, education or medical care for our now growing impoverished nation created by the greed of the top 10 percent of our population and the politicians who have financial ties or past ties with Corporation that build the weapons and guns used in wars.
Religious leaders have a part also, making money off of our depressed population and preaching to look for the signs of the end of days and the Anti Christ again inciting anti-government sentiment and racism playing their role in creating the anger in America today. Christ preached Love, Charity and Hope and of these Love is the greatest. Love they neighbor as they self.
We have made great social stride in our nation, much of which has been done through shed blood of dedicated people who wanted fairness and equal rights for all.
We do need change in Washington to rid our system of large money contributors that pay for votes instead of the people's voices being heard. But demonizing our leaders is not the answer, trashing them every day on the radio and television is not the answer, carrying guns to Washington is not the answer, wearing tea bags on our heads is not the answer. I am afraid it is going to take a younger generation coming up to be the next great generation to make the change that is needed.
Our current leaders have skimmed the cream off of the top leaving the leaner days ahead and creating the anger in our country but like nature our country will re-generate a better generation to lead in the future. I may not see that generation but I have hope.
President Osama did inspire hope but he is ahead of his time he has made advances far more than his predecessors' but the Senate and House of Representative have gutted the reforms they have passes to the point that again the people the reforms were meant to help will not be fully helped but it is a start.
I am proud to live in our country but I am not proud of the some of the people who incite hatred to profit themselves only and like sheep my fellow Americans blindly walk down the path with them and that path only lead to destruction.
Your Judgemental Slip Is Showing Sir...
"...I hope the new marriage succeeds again the odds. But to celebrate this kind of union does a disservice to marriage and increases public skepticism about the institution..."
You managed to thread your judgemental needle through so many points..the age difference, the "odd" choice of music for the reception, Mr. Limbaugh's tendancy to remarry absent the awareness you feel he should have gained (and I guess, publicly attested to)from his failed marriages...Now the his very act of going through with the marriage is, in your opinion, somehow injurious to the very institution of marriage as we know it.
Having said all of that, you still hope he succeeds. And you're a practicing therapist? Wow.
I used to work for a group of
I used to work for a group of psychologists - they are all just as scary as this guy. They are very liberal and the attitude they have depends on what side of the political spectrum the person they are talking about is on. Limbaugh is a conservative so they will attack for that reason and that reason only.
Reality leans left, so it
Reality leans left, so it isn't a surprise that the educated lean left too.
Well said. Rather than a bad
Well said.
Rather than a bad week for marriage, perhaps it has been a bad week for Psychology?
You said it for me, SullyP.
You said it for me, SullyP. But the answer is very simple - it's at the end of the story - "liberals like me". Liberals cannot handle Rush. "Even" psychologists, them in particular, actually. They can't handle the guy:)
Gee how can you comment on
Gee how can you comment on the institute of marriage for the Gore's and then get mad Rush is against gay marriage? Do you even know what marriage is? With that said, of course, Rush would have Elton John play because Rush sees people for who they are and respects talent. After 20 years of listening to Rush, I don't recall these anti-gay rants. I certainly hope he has finally found happiness and maybe we'll get another Rush Hudson Limbaugh, (III) That sure would drive people crazy.
A little El Rushbo
Wouldn't that be great, a little El Rushbo! I hope they are planning to get this done. Don't wait too long, Dad should have some time to play softball and go fishing. But if its a girl, well, melt Daddy's heart. She promises to be a beauty considering her Mama!
Europe v. America
You wrote...
"In comparison to Europe, American's cohabitate and split up more easily, we marry and divorce more frequently, and we go on to remarry and re-divorce more readily."
Well yes. Certainly on the remarry and re-divorce front. But we certainly don't have presidents of our republic buried a la Francois Mitterand of France, with his wife sitting next to his mistress! One should hardly put Europe up as a paragon of family fidelity, in the strictest sense of that word. Or offer Europe as a paragon of family responsibility, considering the meager child-producing rate of European marriages.
You might want to rethink this part of your argument.
Tsk, Tsk...
>One should hardly put Europe up as a paragon of family fidelity,...
Let us be fair, sir. The man did not praise European fidelity or morality. He simply praised their ability to save attorney fees.
Rather selflessly, I might add, given that they probably seek less professional marriage counseling.
I was surprised he remarried too, until...
I thought Rush would never remarry, not after the circumstances surrounding his 3rd divorce. Then I remembered that he went through rehab for his pain pill addiction and how he characterized it as more than just drug rehab. He said he learned a lot about himself during his stay, that rehab was like a life management course. If he hadn't gone through rehab, I wouldn't hold much hope for this marriage.
The age difference? I'm a year older than Rush, and I've been married to the same, much older man since 1968. There IS an age difference, but it's not between us.
Rush is not anti-gay. Those who say otherwise don't listen to him. I wasn't surprised he had Elton John sing at his wedding. He likes the guy's talent. I thought you libs were supposed to be so tolerant?
Tolerant libs..? It's an
Tolerant libs..? It's an oxymoron.
rush
rather a wide brush, no?
Tolerant libs..? It's an
Tolerant libs..? It's an oxymoron.
rush Limbaugh Marriage #4
Professor Bill,
I appreciate your courage in expressing your opinions about Rush's fourth marriage. I agree and disagree with them at many levels that have already been commented on so I will skip them. However, after reading your thoughts and reasoning, my question to you is what counsel would you have given them if they came to you for marriage counseling as to the pros/cons and how to think it through to determine if this may be right for them? Thanks.
rush
my first question to the woman would be: what kind of relationship do you expect with a man who wants to keep all the power?
the fallacy in modern life is confusing love with infatuation & momentary relief from loneliness that bonding with another brings (it always dissipates). does no one read camus anymore? is everyone thinking they have some new twist on love/relationships/life? funny culture, i'd say.
Dr Doherty, At least you
Dr Doherty,
At least you confessed to being a Lib. Good for you. Remember that, unlike Al Gore, Rush is a human. Rush never invented the internet or saved the planet. Seriously, what Al Gore did to Tipper was very callous and calculating. After years of "public service" Al kicked Tipper to the curb. Why not? She had served her purpose making Al look human and helped in all those elections. Why do you think the Clintons are still married? Hillary needs Bill in order to have another run. That is all she lives for, to be in power.
Why Assume...
Why assume that Al Gore was the initiator? In long-term marriages, it's the wife who initiates the divorce two-thirds of the time.
Amen to that
Amen to that my thoughts exactly, according to what I have read it sounds like the blame for his failed marriages is all Rush could it be possible that some of the women were not good wives, that they just wanted the fame and fortune and didn't accert themselves in the marriage and it could of been they who wanted out. I have listened to Rush for 15 yrs almost every day and have never heard any anti gay rants, what I have learned in the 15 yrs is how the opposition has twisted, spinned, and lied about what Rush has said, Iam a tolerant person, but my tolerance for some of the opposition is wearing thin
What's the measure...
What's the measure of a successful marriage in your book? That the couple stays together until one of the partners dies, absent physical or emotional abuse, despite how miserable or unhappy one partner or the other might be?
I know that in the view of certain faiths, those would be seen as successful marriages; the kinds of marriages that do not bring shame on the faith and on the community at large.
Rush and his new bride are both grownups. She certainly has to know who he is; he can take as much time as wanted to get to know her. Perhaps they don't have the same view of marriage that you do. Maybe they realize that they've got no more than a 25% chance of what you'd call conventional marital success. (50% of marriages in America fail, half of the rest are by statistical definition average or below average. If divorce were harder, fewer marriages would fail, but I bet you'd see a lopsidedly unhappy binomial distribution of marital satisfaction).
What would their wedding guests think? I would imagine they would wish them the best with all their hearts. As do I, though I could not disagree more with Mr. Limbaugh on most of his social and political beliefs.
Rush limbaugh Marriage
Professor Bill is a pompous, pedantic individual. Very similar to Al Gore.
You may not agree with with RL's politics, but you can still be civil.
It amazes me that so called liberals can be so intolerant.
DITTO
I've lisened to Rush since 1988 and have't stopped. There is a reason why Rush is #1.
Think about that.
Those who don't or won't listen are the hard headed people. At least I've tried to read/listen to the left wing views.
Sorry, they just don't appeal to me or my sensibilities.
rush
i don't listen anymore because i find him abusive, & an apologist. he gave up being balanced in his critiques early in his career. i think his vitriol is an ugly role model for human interaction. period. i question those who like rush. what is it you like about arguing your point from an abusive standpoint (name-calling, etc.)?
i'm not defending this author's prejudices. but all the rush defenders on this post haven't shown me much insight into what so attractive about a propagandist (left or right).
ps. conservative is just a misplaced label for reactionary. read your history. think!
Rush
Obviously, the author and the posters have never actually listened (LISTENED) to Rush and have taken the WORD of the left wing blogs to heart.
Congratulations to Rush and his new bride. May this marriage last forever.
Rush Limbaugh Marriage
Yes, I must say Rush is making a mistake again. Also agree he is "full of himself"- although I enjoy his show, I am pretty sure he is selfish, errogant, self-assured spoiled rich man - I doubt 33 years old can handle him as a common marriage. It is true what Rush says... she must let him do what ever he wants, and she just enjoy what he allow her to do with his wealth! Simple? I think he is brilliant in politics but not the marriage material.
The issue of Elton Johes, it goes both ways - Elton knew the Rush stand on gay marriage but accepted his money... so, what that tells you????
gay marriage
Rush and John are both in agreement over same sex marriages. Both prefer civil unions.
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