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Amazing Perversions

Just when you think you've heard it all, along comes a perversion that can only be called - Amazing. For example, there's a guy in Amsterdam who gets his jollies taking showers fully clothed. He reports that a suit with a double-vented jacket works best. Go figure. Whether or not he lathers up I don't know. Nor do I know if he then has his clothes dry cleaned. Somehow that would make no sense but, then again, consider the gentleman with whom you're dealing. Read More

Sneeze fetishist REPRESENT

Sneeze fetishist REPRESENT =]

Seriously though, I'm glad that this article was at least not ridiculing anyone. The internet seems to be devoted to acting like it's grossed out by all these "paraphilias"... I think they're jealous.

Jealous

You make a good point. Much of the vicious hostility directed at anything beyond vanilla sex certainly seems to reflect a significant amount of envy. Be suspicious of those who yell the loudest.

Hmph.

You sure none of those amazing folks aren't "Controlled Fetishists?"

What's wrong with being

What's wrong with being adventurous and exploring to maximize pleasure? I guess I'm just not a fan of missionary. That's certainly not the only easy and vanilla-acceptable position. Sometimes, we aren't trying to make it complicated on purpose. If that's your kink, and it's legal, I say go for it.

And It's Legal?

Allow me to comment on that last remark.

Why would any sort of consentual sex - however strange to some - be illegal? Is this really the kind of thing that politicians should monitor? Personally, I feel that such laws show the level of maladjustment our culture has toward sex. We are indeed a fixated, frustrated people.

Don't you agree?

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Stephen Benedict-Mason is a psychologist, a former university professor, syndicated newspaper columnist and radio talk-show host.

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