Living While Dying

Learning to live in the face of cancer.

by Ethan Remmel, Ph.D.

From the Family of Ethan Remmel

Ethan died Monday, June 13th, surrounded by his loved ones.

Published on June 15, 2011 by Ethan Remmel, Ph.D. in Living While Dying

This post was written by Grace Wang

Many of you may have heard the news by now, and if not, I'm sorry that you are reading about it for the first time here. Ethan died Monday, June 13th, surrounded by his loved ones. Both his parents held a hand, Eric stood with us, and I was snuggled in his arms, holding him, and loving him as we all have, for as long as we have known him.

Strange as it may be to say, the past year was a gift. Immediately after the diagnosis, we weren't sure if he was even going to survive the hospital stay. Not only did he survive another year, we -- Team Remmel, of which you are all a part -- were truly blessed with many adventures (hikes, long walks, family vacations, another season of The Office, lots of sports games on TV) and times of happiness. Ethan and I took our first vacation together, to Hawaii -- without the kids! -- and I will treasure those sunny days forever.

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On Sunday afternoon, we all went to Clayton Beach. It was a beautiful day, and I am grateful that his last day was spent frolicking in the waters, playing with his sons, and loving all of us.

He leaves behind a very, very sad family and community of friends and fans. His sons will continue his beautiful spirit. I have never known a braver man who faced death with so much more dignity and grace (ha).

Thank you, Team Remmel!

[This post was written by Grace Wang, partner of Ethan Remmel]