Let's celebrate the Year of the Dragon with a five surefire steps toward simplicity. The Chinese festival stretches from January 23 to February 6, so there's time to test these suggestions offered by Lao Tzu some 2500 years ago. Philosophers of all ages are drawn to his straightforward words.
1) Take to heart the knowledge of things that are in your control and those that aren't. Let what's beyond your reach stay there. Be clear as to your responsibilities and allow frivolous concerns to drop away. Realize that you are small and that "the universe is forever out of control" (Tao Te Ching). Do your best and step back.
2) Stop striving for praise and recognition. Give the term self respect genuine meaning, from you, for you. "Because he believes in himself, he doesn't try to convince others."