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Cohen and Taylor Defeat Schwarzenegger and Sheen: No Contest

Athletes Tackling Homophobia Should Be Front Page News

Do you recognize Ben Cohen's name? How about Hudson Taylor? When will their names define the true meaning of "celebrity"?


Cohen has long been a topnotch English rugby star, bringing the World Cup Title to his country before his recent retirement. Hudson Taylor wrestled his way to All-American status at the University of Maryland and now serves as an assistant coach at Columbia. What Cohen and Taylor share is their unswerving commitment to bring homophobia in sports into the limelight and ultimately to throw it out of every game.

                            

What idle complacency numbs hearts and minds and makes the behavior of a politician and an actor front page fodder? Why does anyone care either to write or to read about them? When homophobia links directly to teen suicide, escalating harassment, bullying and beatings, loss of career and family and friends, why not focus on the "coming out" of two (not-gay, and that still matters) premiere athletes to fight a problem that would seem not to affect them personally? Dr. Martin Luther King, however, in his "Letter from the Birmingham City Jail" reminds us that homophobia does affect them and all of us: "Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere." Bigotry lurking and festering in any heart threatens everyone. Today it's the gay or lesbian, tomorrow the Mennonite or the Mexican...the Asian or the Arab. French philosopher Jean-Paul Sartre renders this stinging indictment of prejudice in his "Portrait of the AntiSemite:" "A man (or woman...) who finds it natural to denounce men cannot have our concept of the humane; he does not even see those whom he aids in the same light as we do; his generosity, his kindness are not like our kindness, our generosity." Prejudice taints the bigot's entire being; such cruelty can't be isolated, reserved just for this one group only, and still leave one a good parent, teacher, friend, or employer. Sartre would suggest that homophobes "go about repeating some formulas which they have learned" and those ingrained weapons can be wielded at will, adapted for any use. No one is safe.

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Devoting much of his time to the "Ben Cohen StandUp Foundation," he travels and speaks out loud and clear against the tolerance of and/or homophobic words and actions showcased by professional athletes. His marital status and athletic prowess give Cohen's message credibility; he knows firsthand why professional athletes hide their sexual orientation. Fearless to return a kickoff return through a line of muscled defenders, the mere thought of teammate and fan reaction silences them. Putting off law school for now, Hudson Taylor has started "Athlete Ally" to bring others into his determined fight. He heard the slurs on the wrestling mat; enough! his heart pronounced. Read more of their story below.


These two athletes have chosen to fight against sinister ignorance. But instead of their names, we behold once again the name in lights of a professional basketball player whose homophobic slurs slung at an official garnered him yet another undistinguished headline.Who is responsible? Is it the media? Is it you? Is it me? Page One headline of the New York Times on Sunday, May 22: "The Gossip Machine, Churning Out Cash." And the subtitle offers the public's "appetite for dirt" as explanation for the article.


Cohen and Taylor, teammates who have barely met, are suiting up against a nasty bias. That's a team worth playing for and rooting all the way home. Isn't it time to stand up, on the court and the field and the mat, but also at dinner tables, office coffee breaks, board meetings, classrooms...? Dr. King lamented the "appalling silence" of those who know better. That was then. What about now? Rick Welts, Phoenix Suns president, recently went public as a gay man. His noble goal of breaking the code of silence suffered by gays and lesbians constitutes another step forward. But when will sexual orientation simply not matter?

Two Straight Athletes Combat Homophobia
By JOHN BRANCH



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Marietta McCarty is the author of Little Big Minds: Sharing Philosophy With Kids and How Philosophy Can Save Your Life: 10 Ideas That Matter Most.

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