Life Saving Philosophy

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A New (Year's) File Folder labeled: UNNECESSARY

Filing away the unnecessary.

Wherever I travel with my philosophical tool kit, no topic is greeted with more eagerness than simplicity. Shoulders relax at the very idea of un-busying our lives.

For the new year, perhaps you would like to join me and countless philosophical hopefuls of all ages in one simple task: starting a file labeled UNNECESSARY. As events, opinions, acquisitions, and assorted baggage of infinite variety fill this file, time and space can appear. The race is off. Time to de-brief.

Two philosophers dance together well as they lend a hand in our project.

Epicurus in ancient Athens insisted that the ingredients for good living are basic. He suggested the use of common sense to distinguish between what we need to live fully as opposed to the endless cycle of what we think we want. Recognize short-term pleasures that come with an expensive price tag - the purchases that buy worry over debt and stress that doesn't end with the day. Enjoy the world and your life more and more as you become independent of desire, he invited. Appreciate the elegant meal or the vacation, but without attachment. What might the ancient Greek philosopher toss in the unnecessary file (for starters!): the whirr of planned activities; the addiction to all things electronic; the bombardment of advertising; name brand obsession that leaves the owner somehow feeling nameless. Being free from pain in the body and trouble in the mind was Epicurus' definition of a fine life. As we grow more accustomed to a less noisy and cluttered life, we can hear the birds; we have the time to love and experience being loved.

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Charlotte Joko Beck, American Zen Master, lectured countless students in San Diego about the sheer happiness that comes from streamlining our lives. Instead of living life as it is, however, we expertly complicate our lives. Like Epicurus, Beck warns against the trap of desire. We concoct some ideal life and feel cheated when this imagined paradise doesn't prove real. Rather being part of the world, we demand that it conform to the shouts of ego: I want, I don't like, you better do this or else.... Beck has a heap to unload in the unnecessary file. First, she tosses in the folder all of our self-imposed if only this and if only that daydreams: if only I had that car or that relationship or that well-behaved child or obedient dog or that ring or that video game or if only ...always. And then she dumps into the now-bulging folder the products of our mind's trickery, the added layers of drama that keep us from the project of simply living our lives: Someone jumped ahead of me in line! I do more than my share and no one notices! Can you believe that he got a promotion! Everybody really IS always picking on me!

What emotions, worries, and fears would you like to file away? What do you need for a good life? What simple pleasures can come your way with a better grasp of the meaning of simplicity?

Slowly, one ingredient at a time, make soup. Chop. Stir. Smell. Wait. Taste. Paradise!

 



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Marietta McCarty is the author of Little Big Minds: Sharing Philosophy With Kids and How Philosophy Can Save Your Life: 10 Ideas That Matter Most.

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