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Haha very much enjoyed the

Haha very much enjoyed the way your article ended. I've met all sorts of people of all demographics, shapes, sizes, etc.... the one universal thing that seems to hold true is everyone wants their story heard. Even those that aren't self absored, it goes for everyone..hell I'm talking about myself right now..but I definitely notice people always seem to appreciate an attentive ear. Good read.

Good point

I like this post. I find it is easier to make friends and business relationships when I make the conversation about the person/client. If I were still a single guy I would use these methods for dating as well...

i actually do care and i'm

i actually do care and i'm sure i'm not the only one about making other people comfortable. shouldn't be more than mere courtesy, not so much a technique. and then there's times when i couldn't care less.. i do care but don't do anything about it.. too tired or messed up or fed up with stuff and i radiate of it

Yes, the end was a nice

Yes, the end was a nice unexpected kicker.

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John R. "Jack" Schafer, Ph.D., earned his degree in psychology from Fielding Graduate University, Santa Barbara, California and served as a behavioral analyst for the FBI.

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