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Why Make-Up Sex and Breakup Sex Are So Good

Make-up sex is wild and extremely gratifying sex that people report having experienced after having had an intense fight. Why, in the wake of having had a bitter fight, is everything forgotten while the couple engage in what many say is amazingly wild and enjoyable sex? And why is breakup sex similarly so exciting? Read More

I can't relate. When I'm

I can't relate.

When I'm angry, the last thing I want to do is have sex. After a fight, I just want distance.

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There we go again with that Nigerian area code (+234).

I agree with the first anonymous comment.

I was going to post the exact same thing. I need emotional distance after a fight as well. I cannot turn anger into sexual arousal, and I HAVE tried. My boyfriend has tried to warm up toward sex quickly after an argument a couple of times, and I just can't do it. Sometimes it takes me up to a day to fully want to get that close again. And it's not the content of the argument; there is no abuse, secret antagonism or ugliness. Just your standard temper flares between two otherwise very emotionally compatible people. I won't even be feeling anger anymore. I just need some calm AFTER the storm. It is ME. Anger and pain does NOT feed into arousal in my own natural emotional makeup.

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NEVER HAD MAKEUP SEX IN ANY OF MY RELATIONSHIPS EITHER

I cannot relate either.

The stress from fighting or being yelled at totally shuts me down. I feel literally sick to my stomache. I avoid high conflict relationships and people (be they romantic, friends or relatives) like the plague. I would rather be alone. It was bad enough getting yelled at while at work (long military career) but at least I was getting paid to tolerate that!

When I think back on all my relationships, they did not contain the element of fighting whatsoever. Issues were resolved without any fighting, perhaps some spirited discussion but never a screaming match.

Been there, done that.

My most recent partner and I engaged in make-up sex multiple times throughout the relationship, though it didn't really begin until a few years in, and it was fairly frequent but only for about a month or two. Sexual healing, if you will, was exactly what the doctor ordered for us. We've just broken up over the last week or two, she had a physical affair with her ex bf. Long story short, we've engaged in break-up sex, and it was fantastic too. Not just physically either, it helped me process a lot of emotions, for her too. Thing is, we're planning on having sex again but I've already explained to her that I'm not ready to resume our relationship yet. I've considered perhaps a "together but apart" kind of much more casual relationship, we were living together for 3 of 4 years, I'm not entirely sure if a continued sexual engagement at this point classifies as a healthy relationship tactic.. But am I evil to say I don't think I can resist?

Dump her, she's a slob.

Dump her, she's a slob.

My daughter was conceived

My daughter was conceived during break-up sex. He had become addicted to drugs and against my heart i was ending the relationship. Only time in 20 years I had unprotected sex. I can't explain my actions that day - but I'm glad my daughter is here.

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Be careful here nobody can help you here or even suggest how you can get your ex or love back,any testimonies of most spell caster here must be ignore.because most of them are scam i mean real scam which i was a victim and i got ripped of thousands of dollars because i was so anxious to get my wife back after she left me for over 2 years with my 7 years old son jerry,i have applied to 7 different spell caster here and all to no avail they all ask for same thing send your name your ex name address and picture phone number etc which i did over and over again and most of them were from west Africa until i saw a post about Dr. IYAMU spell and i decided to gave Him my last trail.he ask me four things my real name,my ex and my ex mother name and $180 and said my ex will come back in 24hours, i have paid over $3000 on spell casting and courier and nothing have work for me after 3 days i was thinking about how much i have lost so far so i said let me give her a try so i called her again and send my real name,my ex and my ex mother name and the $180 because i swear it was my last try so i was waiting as he told me to wait till next day and i could not sleep that night because i really love my wife and want her back at 9pm that day i saw my wife on line on face book and she said hi at first i was shock because she never talk with me for the past a year and 9 month now i did not reply again she said are you there? i quickly reply yes and she said can we see tomorrow i said yes and she went off-line i was confused i try to chat her again but she was no more on line i could not sleep that night as i was wondering what she is going to say, by 7.am the next morning she gave me a miss call i decided not to call back as i was still on shock again she call and i pick she said can we see after work today i said yes so she end the call immediately i got off work she call me and we meet and now we are back again i call Dr.IYAMU the next day thanking him for what he has done in fact i still call him and thank him as my life was not complete without my wife please be careful here i have been scam thousands of dollars if you want a true love spell then contact Dr.IYAMU. (dr_iyamutemplespell@outlook.com)

I don't know how to say thank

I don't know how to say thank you to DR EZIZA for what you have done in my life for putting smile in my face again i was dumped by the one i love so much. after 2years of our relationship but with the help of DR EZIZA a great spell caster who cast a spell to bring him back for me in just 48hours thanks very much am now happy with the one i love and i want to assure you that the spell is 100% sure of positive results of his spell. if you have the same problem or any kind of problem contact ezizaoguntemple@gmail.com or cell number +2348058176289 what will i have done if not for this great man DR EZIZA i live to give you thanks

I have to agree with the

I have to agree with the other comments here. I've heard of make-up sex but never had it. If my wife and I have had an argument, the LAST THING IN THE WORLD that she would be interested in sex.

I suspect that if you find all the men who claim to have had great make-up sex and ask their women what they thought of it, I would guess many of them would say it was not something they'd like to remember.

HOW I WAS ABLE TO GET PREGNANT

My name is Jessica i will like to share to the whole of this miracle that i receive from Dr osorba,i married james in the year 2010 since marriage we have been searching for fruit of the womb my mother inlaw and father call me all sort of names that am fruitless even the doctors said nothing is wrong with me and my husband, james was always assuring me that one day child will come we go to church priest, and perform all sort of rituals but all to no avail. one day in the year 2013 i came across a testimony on how his husband was brought back by one spell caster i decided to consult this spell caster to see if actually did something wrong with me that the doctors could not see, i contact Dr osorba he told me everything that has happen to me and the reason why i could not get pregnant he told me that am under a spell and the spell needed to be broken he actually did break the spell and today me and james and i are happy with two kids {twins} as am writing this testimony am an expectant,if you are out there passing through this kind or similar situation i will advice you contact him today on osorbaspiritualspelltemple@gmail.com OR Visit his website at http://osorbaspiritualspelltemple.webs.com/

THANKS TO DR OSORBA FOR BRINGING BACK MY EX

My name is Angela and am from USA, I want to use this opportunity to thank my great Doctor who really made my life a pleasurable one today. This great man Dr Osorba brought my husband back to me, i had two lovely kids for my husband, about four years ago i and my husband has been into one quarrel or the other until he finally left me for one lady. I felt my life was over and my kids thought they would never see their father again. I tried to be strong just for the kids but i could not control the pains that torments my heart, my heart was filled with sorrows and pains because i was really in love with my husband. Every day and night i think of him and always wish he would come back to me, until one day i met a good friend of mine that was also in a situation like me but her problem was her ex-boyfriend who she had an unwanted pregnancy for and he refused to take responsibility and dumped her. she told me that mine was a small case and that i should not worry about it at all, so i asked her what was the solution to my problems and she gave me this great man’s email address. I was doubting if this man was the solution, so i contacted this great man and he told me what to do and i deed them all, he told me to wait for just 48 hours and that my husband will come crawling on his kneels just for forgiveness so i faithfully did what this great man asked me to do and for sure after 48 hours i heard a knock on the door, in a great surprise i saw him on his kneels and i was speechless, when he saw me, all he did was crying and asking me for forgiveness, from that day, all the pains and sorrows in my heart flew away, since then i and my husband and our lovely kids are happy, that’s why i want to say a big thank you to Dr Osorba Spiritual Temple. This great man made me to understand that there is no problem on earth that has no solution so please if you know that you have this same problem or any problem that is similar, i will advise you to come straight to this great man. You can email him at: osorbaspiritualspelltemple@gmail.com you can also visit his blog on http://osorba.blog.co.uk and websites http://osorbaspiritualspelltemple.webs.com/

Hello, My name is Kate

Hello, My name is Kate Williams, am from USA, I recently had a breakup with my husband about 2 months back. He said we are done that we should move on that he has someone else now. I could not even bear the pain and everything and
just so unfortunate, I discovered I was pregnant when me and my ex we going through some big fights. I couldn't tell him I was pregnant because I knew he would blame it on me. I suffered with the secret on
my own and I could not go through an abortion on my own. The funny thing is I discovered that he had two other girlfriends I was not aware of. I know if I could turn back the hands of time I would do it
again because i could not suffer everything alone, I almost drop out of university because of a guy. On a faithful day after i lost of thought, an old friend told me about a spell caster with this email
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(8) Spell for strong love and relationship
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Irrelevant posts

Looks like all the irrelevant posts here are scams from Nigeria. Same grammatical mistakes in all of them, some of them with a Nigerian phone number.

More just from Nigerai

Another scam from Nigeria (+234 country code)

My Name is mrs success. I

My Name is mrs success. I will love to share my
testimony to all the people in the forum because I
never thought I will have my boyfriend back and her
means so much to me. My ex-boyfriend that I want
to get married to left me 4 weeks to our wedding for
another girl, When I called him, he never picked my
calls, her deleted me on her face book and changed
her relationship status to Single. I lost my job as a
result of this because I can’t get myself anymore,
my life was upside down and everything did not go
smooth with my life. I tried all I could do to have
him back to all did not work out until I met Dr sambola
on a forum. I explained my problem and all that I
have passed through in getting him back and how I
lost my job, so Dr sambola told me her is going to help
me. I don't believe that in the first place but she
swore she will help me out and she told me the
reason why my boyfriend left me and also told me
some hidden secrets. I was amazed when i heard
that from her, she said she will cast a spell for me
and I will see the results within 48 hours. To my
greatest surprise my boyfriend called me at exactly
2 days and apologies for all he had done, he said he
never knew what he is doing and her sudden
behavior was not intentional and he promised not
to do hurt again. It was like I am dreaming when I
heard that from him and when we ended the call, I
called and told her my boyfriend called and
apologized, she told that I haven't seen anything
yet, she said I will also get my job back in 3 days’
time. Within 3 days’ time my Director called me at
my place of work that I should resume working
immediately. My life is back into shape, I have my
boyfriend back and we are happily married now with
kids and have my job back too. Dr sambola is really
powerful. If we have up to 20 people like her in the
world, the world would have been a better place.
she has also helped many of my friends to solve
many problems and they are all happy now. I am
posting to the forum for anybody that is interested
in meeting Dr sambola for help. You can mail hem
greatsambolaspiritualtemple@gmail.com

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I have come in my own little way to say thank you to Dr.Zabaza for a highly taking out time to solve my relationship problem. Though his services was not free but i was totally satisfied by the job he did because through his help my lover who has abandoned me for over 45 days finally see reasons to come back to me. After gotten this wonderful result i decided to appreciation Dr.Zabaza by writing down his contact details: zabaza.logan@yahoo.com Or call mobile on +2348182620374 By contacting Dr.Zabaza you will not only be getting your lover instead she will be back to you with so much love and care

CHARLES

FROM ARIZONA PHOENIX (USA)

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SPELL CAST SUCCESSFUL

My Name is melissa Banks am from u.s.a I want to use these medium to testify what no one as don through the internet,the great dr jarto brought back my husband after my husband has left me to one of his co_worker in his office,she casted a spell on my husband dr ekpiku reveal it to me and he break the spell and my husband who swear that he will never come back to and my child,and he called me all sort of names,he now came back to me and my child on his knees begging for forgiveness he said he did not know what come over him but what will I do than to forgive him,that devil of a girl want to take away my joy,I thank you so much dr ekpiku you are indeed a great spell caster,is anyone trying to take away your lover or your lover is trying to live you for no reason,I will advise you to contact this great doctor on his email: Dr.jartospellcaster@gmail.com ,a problem said is a problem solve

Hi, I'm from the States. I

Hi, I'm from the States. I want to quickly inform you all that there is a spell caster that is genuine and real to the core.I never really believed in any of these things but when I was losing Gibson, I needed help and somewhere to turn badly. Then, I found High Chief priest Omiemie spells and i ordered a LOVE SPELL. within a day later, my phone rang.Gibson was his old self again and wanted to come back to me! Not only come back, the spell caster opened him up to how much I loved and needed him. Spell Casting isn't brainwashing, but they opened his eyes to how much we have to share together. I recommend you if you are in my old situation to try it. It will bring you a wonderful surprises as well as your lover back to you. dont contact fakes the only real spell caster is High Chief priest Omiemie, he alone will make things to be the way they ought to be. you can contact High Chief priest Omiemie on worldgreatestspellcaster@gmail.com he's very nice and great.

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Aaron Ben-Zeév, Ph.D., former President of the University of Haifa, is Professor of Philosophy. His books include: In the Name of Love: Romantic Ideology and its Victims.

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