In the Name of Love

A philosopher looks at our deepest emotions

One Night With You

The question "would you spend the night with me?" can be taken to be offensive and rude, suggesting a superficial pleasurable night of sin. However, the question can also express profound love, suggesting a profoundly satisfied night of tender love. When this question was put to them, many people (especially men) accept the offer. Should you do the same? Read More

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I find your articles thoughtful and engaging. Thank you for writing and sharing your work.

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Thank you for your very kind words.

this it is called something ekse entirely

it is called being a slave to our bodies and further proves that anyone might have an affair at any time, you cannot rely on your lover to stay honest.

Thank you...

Your articles do help understanding people's motivations. It's easy to paint things black or white, but the palette of grays with which you explain attached (or unattached) relationships goes to the core of what being human is.

Thank you for your thoughful ideas...

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Aaron Ben-Zeév, Ph.D., former President of the University of Haifa, is Professor of Philosophy. His books include: In the Name of Love: Romantic Ideology and its Victims.


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