In the Face of Adversity

The importance of resilience

In Search of a Superhero

We need to accept responsibility for changing our behavior and the world.

In the past year, the human race appears to have had more than its share of  both minor and major disasters -- earthquakes, tsunamis, nuclear disasters, hurricanes and tropical storms and a global economy that seems to be getting worse rather than better.  As the media continues to sift through the current roster of candidates for president of this country, I have a sense that we are continuing to search for a superhero, someone to lead us out of the wilderness and the morass that we find ourselves in, but I doubt that we will find one outside of a movie theater.  I believe the only one who will save us from us is us.

Our leader's attitudes and behaviors certainly are important.  But any leader will fail if the expectation is that he or she will fix our nation's problems.  We must do the fixing.  Each one of us needs to accept our responsibility for changing our behavior and the world. We must work together.  We can do something about the world's problems. We can do our part to fix the energy crisis, the problems with the healthcare system, global warning and the economy. We can do this by each day practicing the skills and the attitudes of resilience.  Here are a few suggestions:

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  1. Be flexible.  Drive less.  Take the bus.  Choose more fuel-efficient ways of traveling, e.g., fuel-efficient cars.
  2. Be less focused on having more.  Spend your money wisely.  Save.  Many of us still think this is a good idea versus spend.  This will require that you manage your feelings and your impulses and become a better problem solver.
  3. Pay close attention to what our federal and local leaders are doing and let them know what you would like for them to do.  This involves being able to assert yourself with others and communicate effectively.
  4. Change your attitude about difference. We need to welcome diversity of opinion rather than to be suspect of it. We need to seek compromise and practice inclusion rather than the easy path of exclusion. We need to connect with others. We are all in this together.


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Ron Breazeale, Ph.D., is the author of Duct Tape Isn’t Enough: Survival Skills for the 21st Century as well as the novel Reaching Home.

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