Honesty IS the best policy, for your health. Lying produces stress, which damages health and accelerates aging. Read More
I wouldn't want to hang out with someone who decided to stop lying for health reasons. It's kind of inherently sick to say you choose health over morality. At best, this new info about lying will perhaps tip a sickly person towards a reassessment of their behavior, and at worst it'll act as a sociopath detector.
i agree about 'honest' but the problem, how make everyone to be honest?sometimes 'not honest' is be needeed, isn't it? of course not honest for kindness? in that problem we'll stress too. so i think stress is usual, that's a challance. The most important is how we can overcome our stress as soon...it mean no problem we stress but don't stay too long in our stress.
Very interesting article and subject. As I get older I realize that EVERYONE lies at times, (yes, me too!). Most of us lie not out of malice but the opposite, to keep from hurting someones feelings, so telling the truth sometimes is also quite stressful, hence lying seems easier! I've heard it said, if everyone told the truth all the time, this world would be one big smoking crater!
Things cannot be black/white.
Apart from "Lying" and "Being honest" there is also "judgement".
This definitely is an interesting perspective. I have personally always felt very strongly about honesty and being careful with each and every word I say, but had never thought of it from that point of view. It is quite true that lying causes stress, too, and hopefully it would make people think more deeply about the 'innocent' lies they tell from time to time. On the other hand, to some individuals it may not cause any stress at all, because they might just not care...
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David Ropeik is the author of How Risky Is It, Really?, an Instructor at Harvard University Extension School, and a risk-communication consultant.
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