Having Sex, Wanting Intimacy

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Self-Victimizing Again?

Do you attribute control of your successes and failures to yourself or to some fated force outside of your purview? Whether it is your weight, your emotions, your spouse, your children, your paycheck--do you continually find yourself feeling resentful or upset by the events in your life? Self-determination is a remedy for feeling perpetually victimized. Read More

Locus of Control

How do you reconcile a belief in internal locus of control with a belief in a Higher Power who has possibly laid out one's life plan?

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Jill P. Weber, Ph.D. is the author of Having Sex, Wanting Intimacy—Why Women Settle for One-Sided relationships.


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