I have been with my spouse for over 12 yrs and he suffers from premature ejaculation. It is so frustrating. I was so naive when I married him. Sex is not that difficult. I thought one day he would just get the hang of it. His premature ejaculation hasn't improved one bit. Early in our relationship, he blamed me b/c he was so excited. Now after 12 years, it's b/c I'm too demanding. Do men who suffer from premature ejaculation rush the foreplay? He usually can only stand about 5-10 min of foreplay and then he's ready. Of course I have just started to get warmed up. And then 2 min later, it is over. The other day he told me "you make foreplay a drag"
Can you believe he had the nerve to have an affair? I almost laughed. Feel free to dissapoint another woman in bed. Now he wants to work on reconciliation. Our counselor told me not to take him back unless he sees a sex therapist but he still has not called a single therapist