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premature ejaculation
I have been with my spouse for over 12 yrs and he suffers from premature ejaculation. It is so frustrating. I was so naive when I married him. Sex is not that difficult. I thought one day he would just get the hang of it. His premature ejaculation hasn't improved one bit. Early in our relationship, he blamed me b/c he was so excited. Now after 12 years, it's b/c I'm too demanding. Do men who suffer from premature ejaculation rush the foreplay? He usually can only stand about 5-10 min of foreplay and then he's ready. Of course I have just started to get warmed up. And then 2 min later, it is over. The other day he told me "you make foreplay a drag"
Can you believe he had the nerve to have an affair? I almost laughed. Feel free to dissapoint another woman in bed. Now he wants to work on reconciliation. Our counselor told me not to take him back unless he sees a sex therapist but he still has not called a single therapist
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Hey lisa..relax..even i have this same problem of ejaculation during foreplay..ask him to finger you...caress u..touch u all over..have u ever tried ejaculating again and again in one session?
Premature ejaculation is a
Premature ejaculation is a learned condition, from what I have read, and can be "unlearned".There is a great book on the subject, How To Make Love All Night, by Barbara Keesling. It has helped me stop the blame game, realize the problem, and correct it with the help of my wife. Now there is nomore feelings of inadequacy, or disappointment.
ypur premature ejaculation delimma
Sounds like he grew up having to satisfy himself quick before his parents came home. His condition will NEVER improve, as you have noticed. Moreover, he is now confrontational blaming his problems on you. It appears that if there was sver a real defination for :irreconcilable differences:, this is it. You need to get help phsychologically and physically before his accusations become rooted in your brain and you become unable to have an orgasm. You probably need a few strong ones back to back right now just to relieve your stress and regain your self esteem, which is VERY important. You also do not want long bouts of depression to set in compounding your problems.
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