Fixing Families

Tools for walking the intergenerational tightrope

The Limits of Being Good

"I'm sick and tired of being good."

Dana is a 35 year old, and by all accounts, successful woman. Good family, great kids, high level job, attractive, in good health. What brings her into counseling, however, is a recent scare where she found herself really attracted to and sexually tempted by a work colleague. Nothing happened, but the unexpected burst of emotions took her aback. Read More

What an AHA moment !

What an AHA moment for me after reading this post. Suddenly, everything makes sense. I finally understand why I have felt «stretched thin» all my adult life, why I have difficulty making decisions, why at age 50 I got fed up with my job and quit (something I thought would never happen). And while I thought that I had lost all illusions about life (it pays to be good and do good, hard work will be rewarded, etc...), in fact what happened, I think, is that the «magical thinking» wasn’t working anymore.
With this new understanding, I feel at peace and ready to change gears. Your tools will be very helpful. I cannot thank you enough.

AHA

I really appreciate you taking the time to write, and I'm so happy that the article resonated with you. Best of luck in your quest.

It super duper resonated with me too! Spot on!

You nailed that note loud and clear! Thanks!

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Robert Taibbi is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and author with over 37 years of experience in community mental health. He has worked with couples and families as a clinician, supervisor, and clinical director.

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