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Dating After A Break-Up: The Program of Three

Episode 5 shows Nadette dating 3 guys but no sex.

Welcome Back to the 31-Day Love Life Makeover! In Episode 5 you'll see Nadette, our 45-year old NYC heroine venture back into the dating world. I put her on the Dating Program of Three in which she will date three guys at the samre time but with one caveat: No sex. That will keep her from falling back into her dead-end dating pattern, the Flame-Out. Without sex in the picture, her oxytocin levels won't spike up leaving her overly vulnerable to over-involvement too quickly. For more on identifying and overcoming dead-end dating patterns pick up a copy of my new relationship advice book, Sealing the Deal: The Love Mentor's Guide to Lasting Love.  

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Meanwhile, Nadette's ex is texting her and wanting to get back with her. Let's see what happens:


Diana Kirschner, Ph.D., a psychologist and frequent guest expert on The Today Show, is the author of the bestselling book Love in 90 Days: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Own True Love. more...

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