Welcome Back to the 31-Day Love Life Makeover! In Episode 5 you'll see Nadette, our 45-year old NYC heroine venture back into the dating world. I put her on the Dating Program of Three in which she will date three guys at the samre time but with one caveat: No sex. That will keep her from falling back into her dead-end dating pattern, the Flame-Out. Without sex in the picture, her oxytocin levels won't spike up leaving her overly vulnerable to over-involvement too quickly. For more on identifying and overcoming dead-end dating patterns pick up a copy of my new relationship advice book, Sealing the Deal: The Love Mentor's Guide to Lasting Love.